I have a steady going relationship with my girlfriend for the past 7 yrs. Anyone know how to improve it?

Answer 1

What's wrong with it in the first place?? Do you want to get married? Is your sex life getting boring? What exactly needs improving?

There's nothing wrong with a having a steady long-term relationship. You're friends and lovers at this point. If you need to spice things up, try a few surprises like a mini trip to a romantic getaway, or go somewhere to get a massage together. Dress-up the bedroom with soft lighting, sensual music, and lots of candles. Just use your imagination and have fun!

Answer 2

This is long enough, you should be married by now.

If both of you are around 25, and are able to support this relationship at a higher level then now then I think there are issues that you did say anything about, you wrote, "Anyone know how to improve it"?

No one but you two can improve, but you must know what needs improving.

So go to work on it. If 25 years and thing get worse, write it of as good life experience and go on with your life. Try this site.

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Answer 3

Oh, the past is in the past, and hopefully your husband understands that. I can tell you that the loss of a child, for whatever reason, is very painful - more for some than others. That is not so easy to get past, no matter how hard we try. I had a miscarriage almost 10 years ago. I wasn't nearly as far along as you, but I saw my baby on the sonogram, saw it's limbs and head and body, but no beating heart. It devastated me. I got over it fairly soon only because 2 months later I got pregnant with my daughter and my focus was on keeping that baby alive. My daughter is now almost 9 years old and I STILL have pangs now and then over the loss of my baby. If that baby had not died, I would not have been pregnant with my daughter, so that makes it easier for me to deal with. Your situation is different. Still, just know that those of us who have lost a baby know how painful it is, and you are not alone. It hurts. It's normal to be afraid to get pregnant again. When and if you and your husband do decide to have a baby, just know that every pregnancy is different, and what happened the first time won't necessarily happen again. If you tell your doctor your concerns, he/she will monitor things closely. It's good that your ignored problems are coming back. Now you can deal with them head on. Trust your husband to be supportive and understanding. Lean on him. Don't expect him to read your mind, especially because he has not experienced this loss of your baby with you - YOU experienced it. Allow him to be there for you. It will all work out. Blessings to you both.

Answer 4

Depends on how old are you!

I assume your are in mid 20's, and given that you got a steady job and income, you should marry her. If you don't, attraction may fade away. . .

Answer 5

Looks like the reason your are asking is that you have the seven year itch! Boy, you are in trouble if you dont spice up your relationship! Try Threesome or what ever the heck you have not done beforee. Good luck!

Answer 6

it obivious, if you have been around for 7yrs, what's really stoping you from taking your relationship to next level. Are you wit her because you are scared of being alone? I mean, time waits for no man, if you really love this woman, do the right thing and marry her. and if you don't to be with her, let her free to enjoy her life and you go about yours.

Answer 7

Have a variety of activities. Always be a gentleman and a thoughtful bf. Love her with all your heart.

Answer 8

I suggest a marriage. Or a holiday to the carribean. Or both.

Answer 9

Marry her

Answer 10

Do you love her? Does she love you? Ask her to marry you. I wish you the best of luck1