There is this guy i like, we have been chatting on the phone,texting each other and chat on the internet. we met up about a week ago got on realy well, he couldn't wait to see me again so called round to mine, still more chat and text's seemed realy interested, made plan's to see each other to night but then he cancelled no reason but i'm sorry to let you down. .......how would you take it .........just let him be if he contacted you fine or move on ..........?
2006-12-07
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angies_angel_eyes2
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The game playing has started. He wants to see if you'll call him first and all that nonsense. Move on.
2006-12-07 00:35:44
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answered by Anonymous
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The objectionable answer from John Doe which is an open invitation to prostitution is in this answer also.Yahoo may like to see it and see whether it falls within the four corners of community guidelines.
Coming to the question.As another answerer has pointed out the Game of Love has started.The ground is being tested. You may make a countermove. It may take the form of total silence or an equally cold response; The next strategic step would depend on the response or lack of it.
2006-12-07 00:44:36
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answered by Prabhakar G 6
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He apologized for not being able to keep your date what more do you want? Maybe something came up...maybe there was an emergency. You've only been texting and "chatting" with this guy, only "met up" a couple of times and you think you own him now? There is nothing to "take".
2006-12-07 00:37:58
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answered by Anonymous
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Proceed as if he will never contact you again.
If he does and you're free, fine. Be suspicious though. Only meet in a public place.
I have absolutely no grounds but my own suspicion for saying this next part, but I suspect he is married/committed and his "window of opportunity" fell through at the last moment.
2006-12-07 00:37:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Since he cancelled, and didn't stand you up, I wouldn't take issue with it...if you'd still like to see him why don't you suggest the next meeting time? If he doesn't go for that, then I'd leave it to him but not put life on hold waiting for him to make plans...
2006-12-07 00:37:16
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answered by . 7
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he might have a really good reason but not want to tell you i mean you have only known each other a week give him a chance and if he likes you he will get in touch if not, move on
2006-12-07 00:39:41
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answered by zan 2
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Hey you said u met each other only 1 wk ago right? I think it's not fair to jump into conclusions yet. Y not giv him sometime?
2006-12-07 00:42:58
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answered by bonviVante 2
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things happen occassionaly that prevent us from meeting people! Hes not obliged to give you a reason at this point and time - dont contact him again after this - but if he contacts you then give him another chance. xx
2006-12-07 00:39:09
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answered by Anonymous
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Stop reading between the lines...he cancelled cos he had to...it happens. Accept it at that.
why are people so ready to give up on what they want? If you like him...call him.
Best of luck...go get him!
2006-12-07 00:43:46
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answered by michael s 4
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find out what hes doing and if its something like work or something with family just reschudule if its with another chick though and he cancled becuase of that find on eof his friends and sleep with the friend and tell then call this guy your talking about and ask for his friends phone number. thall teach him
2006-12-07 00:37:06
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answered by Anonymous
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