asalamwalaikum
I am almost engaged :) to a very old friend of mine and before we go through with the formal engagement (with the families and all that fun stuff) we want to make sure that we have the same idea of marriage and the same expectations.
** i was wondering if anyone knew of the rules for husbands and wives in Islam. the rules for marriage as whole will help, but i am looking more for the specific roles of a husband and a wife.
thank you all for your time and answers ahead of time
peace and blessings to all
also, if you can, please cite sources whether it be scholars interpretation, Quran, or Hadith
ps i always ask my questions twice to make sure that i get a diverse group of answers
2006-12-07 00:03:27 · 7 answers · asked by Living MyTruth 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Wa'alaykum musalaam Sister
Heres a link to do with marriage contracts and stuff... It has many different issues....
http://islamqa.com/index.php?cref=344&ln=eng
May Allaah bles you and your Family and your new husband. May Allaah also guide us to the traight path. Ameen
Was-salaamu'alaykum
2006-12-07 00:21:43 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Stick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wa'alaykum us salaam warhamatulahee wabaraktuhu Congratulations on your almost engagement! :) If you two are the best for each other, I pray that Allah grants both of you happiness and success together, and may your marriage be blessed. Now that I got the du'a out of the way... daaang! You're asking for a lot of information! :) There are entire classes on this subject alone. That being said, I happen to have the very detailed notes to those classes :D Please email me your email address and I will email you two things 1) a Word document (about 11 pages) on how to be a successful spouse in Islam (with tips for both the husband and wife), and 2) Fiqh of Love in Islam notes (about 95 pages). Again, I pray that everything turns out for the best!
2016-03-13 04:19:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically you are supposed to obbey your husband, since he is responsible before Allah for the family
http://www.islamimatrimonials.com/muslim_marriage_rights.htm
http://www.muslimtents.com/aminahsworld/The_rights_n_duties.html
he is supposed to bring money home, so that you can dedicate yourself 100% to your family. naturally, this is not always so in the West, among converts, or liberal countries of Muslim majority.
you are supposed to be sweet to him, and never refuse to have sex, since the angels will be mad at you (or so my Muslim husband used to say ;) and sexual pleasure is the right of both of you in marriage.
Good luck!
2006-12-07 01:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great question!
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2006-12-07 04:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
rules of husband & wife in any in & out is simply in & out..
2006-12-07 00:06:07 · answer #5 · answered by priyankji 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
aha . . you are planning to get two husbands?
2006-12-07 00:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by tell me about Darwin 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Please check out http://www.ahya.org/amm/modules.php?name=Lectures&d_op=viewdownload2&cid=2
2006-12-07 00:07:00 · answer #7 · answered by ss1886 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋