met this girl and we have been talking on the fone for over a year now cos we aint in the same town. actually havent asked a girl out in my life though i've had some as friends. dunno how to go bout this and cos i find myself thinking bout her most times of the day and really have deep feelings for her but she's very reserved and has this very wonderful personality you jst cant resist .am really crazy bout her and dont want to lose her and i want to assure her am not a player or anything of that sort but would love to make her happy in a long term relationship. wouldnt call it love yet bt that mite me it.though she's stil in skool and am a graduate bt dont want to disturb her study bt at the same time show her i really care about her. we're bout to meet this month and am at loss of words to ask her out and would like suggestions on how to do that and wut u think she'd like on as a gift or wut u'l do if u were in my shoes wen u meet her plus any other helpful tip. this is an emergency
2006-12-06 23:56:47 · 6 answers · asked by nagarta6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just ask her if she wants to go to the movies or something. It's easy
2006-12-06 23:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by chevygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calm down! You are not asking her to marry you,right? Ask her casually that you will be in her town and would like to have coffee or dinner with her. Be brave! For all you know that is what she has been waiting for!
Be witty when you meet her next month ( how did you manage to make her meet you in the first place?) and don't get your feeings get in the way because I tell you that's a guarantee for disaster.
Act naturally! You have been talking and friends for a year so there's no reason for you to be acting stupid. There should be a good reason for her wanting to meet you and talk to you on the phone that long so I don't see any other way for you not to get her to love you. JUST LET IT FLOW! Talk to her like you would on the phone and ask to help her with her studies,you being a graduate and all, and if she allows you then that's a good thing to share. You don't bother her studies and you get to hang out a lot.
Also remember that the worst thing a man could do is to be a comedian when you are not! Crack jokes, if she doen's laugh just say "sorry I am not funny " in a joking way and she will smile. Ihave been seen boys in their first dates with their lists of jokes and don't know how to deliver anyway and I tell you it's a disaster!
Laugh at yourselves!
With the way you write about her,I cansee that you have noble intentions for her,so don't be dumb and at a loss for words,because i guarantee you,my friend,at this point SHE LIKES YOU! Don't mess it up anymore.
2006-12-07 00:18:53 · answer #2 · answered by wolfass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before doing so...be sure that you it not affect her life...just lyk wat u said...it might ruin her studies...if u really love this girl then ask her for a date...if she tells you it isn't the right time for her to have a relationship with someone then accept it...you know in some cases wen one person asks his or her friend for a date or tells his or her felling to the latter, the friendship fades...so be careful about this...if you really love her then you will learn to wait for her...i think he'll see you are serious and determined...
2006-12-07 00:06:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jireh Grace P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
n a converstation ask her is she in a relationship if she says no then ask do she wants to be n one she might say u offering then say yes ok the rest is up to u
2006-12-07 00:10:58 · answer #4 · answered by lostgurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think gals like gyus who r really handsome and sexy if u r so then go ahead and propose her i m sure she wont deny u.
2006-12-07 00:21:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her flowers and tell her that your ready to date
2006-12-06 23:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋