Ok, last year (i know its a long time) there was a girl that im pretty sure liked me. I never talked to her because I was to shy and really didnt know what to say to her. Now I have a really big crush on her, and I cant even get her to look at me anymore. I know that she probably felt rejected when I didnt talk to her, but how can I fix this?
I know ive asked this before but im trying to get a wider spread of answers.
2006-12-06 23:35:57 · 16 answers · asked by charliebrown153213 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just went through this with someone else on here so I will tell you the same thing I told them. If you like her then tell her, keep in mind you hurt her and if she has no feelings for you at all she will reject you and then you will be hurt but at least you will be able to move on. Secondly if she does like you and wants to be with you then the questions and the problem is over. Just go up to her and explain to her that you were a real jerk and that you are so sorry for what you did to her and that if given another chance you will make it up to her for hurting her. She will respect you for that. Best of luck.
2006-12-06 23:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that by now she may have moved on to and has a relationship with someone else. However have you ever tried walking up to her and opening your mouth letting words come out? She may see you as playing games. You have to show her that you're serious about wanting to date her. If you're not sure you can approach her and talk to her try writting your feelings down and getting this letter to her the best way ou can. However if you want to impress her, talk to her and if possible give her flowers (not roses) and just explain why you ignored her before. Approach her and ask her to have lunch with you, if she accepts you're heading the right direction. If she either keeps walking or says no then you know no matter what you do she's not going to accept you now.
2006-12-07 07:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes dude im a guy and ill tell u if shes worth waht it means to u then try ur best but dont annoy her.and give it time.
1 try finding time to spend with her
2 try and talk to her writing a letter can start this easily
3 try and show her taht ur sensable and u care
4 and annoy her
5 leave her a phone # then u guys can have a nice privet conversation
6 start asking questions but not questions that will scare her away.
7 give it alittle time and then gain her trust
8 ask her if she ever liked u
9 say that u realy want to know waht she thinks about u
10 if she is honest she well say i had a crush on u or something liek that. dont be annoying though give it time.
and dude show her that she is important to u cuzz when u show her taht shes important to u and that she means something to u then thats when u can start telling her lets go out some time or just let ur selves be alone listen to music and slowly dance with her jsut u and her in like a room of some sort and dont get all sextual u dont want to mess things up. keep the lights off but dance with her with nice songs exp: one voice.. thats a nice group. look for there songs and get them and then spend time make her a mix cd then after taht ask her out on a date and be respect full. gain her parents trust and there u have it ur set. u need to tell ehr taht u were flatered when u knew she liked u if that was the case. but that u were just shy and now that she means something to u. trust me on this one do waht feels right.
2006-12-07 07:48:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look i know u prob have heard this b4 but u really need to just walk up and talk to her..... if that can't be done maybe u should write her a letter or maybe even a poem tellin her how u feel and that u weren't rejectin her b4 it is just that u are shy.... u really need to be honest with her and then it is up to her whether she pursues it further or not..... the longer u leave it the harder it will be for u, or she mite even find herself another fella... so go for it... GOODLUCK
2006-12-07 07:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by angelindisguise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you I would call her and just explain how you feel about her and explain how shy you are and that you would like a chance to spend some time with her if she is willing? Maybe the reason she doesn't look at you is she thinks you aren't interested in her and she feels bad.YOU NEED TO COMMUNICATE! If you care about her please take the first step and contact her.Or next time she walks by you tell her Hi with a smile.MELT THE ICE.Good-Luck
2006-12-07 07:41:34 · answer #5 · answered by daklove2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u might wanna just go up 2 her and say hi or something and simply start talking 2 her in a cople of week ask her 2 the movies or something u both get to know each other more nd u will get her to know u more and more each day and she will see what kinda guy u are
2006-12-07 07:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by lola :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have an open talk with her explaining the whole thing. If she is an understanding person she will surely accept you.If not there are so many fish in the sea. Go ahead and try your luck.
2006-12-07 07:40:48 · answer #7 · answered by Kumari V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By now she probably just wants to hide her feelings but if you talk to her maybe things will change for the better, hope you get the girl
2006-12-07 08:07:37 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her let her know that you was so shy that you was scared that she would've rejected you and now you really like her now but now she's rejecting you but you would really like to start all over. And she just might understand.
2006-12-07 07:46:04 · answer #9 · answered by lasondraperry-graham 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her up and ask her out you will regrat it if u don't cause i know this guy in my school who talks to me online but never face to face and he knows i like him he was just too shy if only he asked me out even with a bunch of friends i would have said yes too bad i moved away and will never see him again unless i look hard enough
2006-12-07 08:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by zoey z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋