I was involved with a married man..hmm..for about 5 months...
i never really got too close to him, i lied to him alot, cause i knew the reltionship wasnt serious....untill he started paying for EVERYTHING....i mean even a trip to europe ..which was not cheap.
( i met someone in europe closer to my age and not married or having kids)
i never told him when i came back because i was moving there and i have already seen how retarted this man can be..(peeking under my door to see if i am there...waiting in my parking lot...calling 40 times a day...just showing up.. ect..)
so i decided to move to europe and forget everything..but he didnt.
he is calling my home and harassing me saying he wants all his money back. (i think he got the number from my friend OR he got it from an old phone bill that was in my mailbox when i left. i live with my new boyfriend so i called here ..before i moved her
2006-12-06 23:19:12 · 13 answers · asked by jasmine t 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law Enforcement & Police
I just need answers as what legal steps i have and what i can do.I f i place charges will i have to go back to the other country and press charges or can it just be ok with a restraining order?
2006-12-06 23:20:13 · update #1
for everyone who is "judging me" trust me this man deserves everything he gets..it was not just me he had been seeing and i did not take advatage of him.he was willing and ready. He is not the victim..I personally think it was his Karma..so if you are more into juding then answering please do it somewhere else.
2006-12-06 23:27:06 · update #2
so you moved to Europe with a man you meet once while there on a trip with a married man?
what are you going to do when this man turns out the same? Run to Russia?
More Importantly, what are you going to do when your 90 day visa you get as a US Citizen runs out? get married? Then you run into possible issues with Dual citizenships... the US does not like Dual Citizenship.
Pull your head out of your ***.
2006-12-06 23:27:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His "karma"? Bahahahahahahahahahaha!!!!
I don't know how in the world you can feel that you are some kind of victim in this.
You believe that he deserves anything that happens to him, well guess what, so do you.
I've got an idea.... Why not get your phone number changed and don't give it out to anyone but family members!!!
Duh!!
Or could it be that you don't want the current Mr Wonderful to know what kind of person you are and what you did.
OH the webs we weave when we attempt to deceive.
2006-12-07 07:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does the country you are living in now have caller id service for telephones? I would get it and then not answer his calls.
He gave you the trip as a gift, and he cannot ask you to pay for it.
If it were me, I would tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone, you will contact his wife, and let her know what kind of man she is married to.
2006-12-07 07:25:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bravo, first a married man then you move to Europe to be with the guy you met on a trip. Your parents must be soooo proud.
2006-12-07 07:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not only your problem but happens to countless people men and woman.You owe him nothing if he GAVE you those things. When he calls put him on hold and wait till he hangs up Do not talk to him or answer his questions. Notify authority's of being harrassed and give them his name in case of serious problems with this person. You are not property and no one owns you. You also have the right to choose what life you live and with whom you choose.
2006-12-07 07:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by beaudrycharles@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he feels you owe him something to show you a court order to pay, or to leave you alone. Next time he calls, just hang up. Unless you signed something saying you would pay for the trip he has no legal grounds to collect from you. If it continues just change your number.
2006-12-07 08:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by oklatom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya you were wrong. You need to see if you can file a stalking injunction where you are. If he is sending you threatening text messages or letters you may be able to get a harrasment charge. Tell his wife, that may throw him off. You could also change your phone number. Good luck and make better choices.
2006-12-07 07:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by me_laub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your # girl and congrats on the new romance! in europe with new bf the last thing id worry bout is a married man in another country but look out "charma is a bit ch"
2006-12-07 09:37:47 · answer #8 · answered by betralone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What charges do you think you have? It is obvious you used this person, then dumped him when the first stud walked by. Frankly, you should be harassed. You lied to him and now you are cowering. You need to make this right somehow.
2006-12-07 07:24:48 · answer #9 · answered by spag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well block is number and he can't make you repay him he should not have done that crap to Begin with, tell him if he doesn't stop you will be talking to his wife, please stay away from married men in the future, its a hassle will never go anywhere and it only hurts everyone in the end
2006-12-07 07:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋