I am such a loser. All my friends have girl friends. But i don't have any. I can't approach a girl, i can't ask one out, i can't make a good conversation with a girl. Yet, i'm obsessed with them. What should i do with my self? I'm so miserable. Help!
2006-12-06 22:49:01 · 12 answers · asked by Tim 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Build up the confidence to start up a friendship with a girl.
2006-12-06 22:50:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To start you are not a loser, asking someone out is not as easy as people make it. But if you like a girl you will never know how she feels unless you put your fears out there and just do it. Just be yourself and don't go into the conversation with the idea that you will ask her out take the pressure off and just think of it as a conversation the more relaxed you are the easier it will be for you to communicate with her. Before you know it you will be comfortable and so will she, remember it is just as hard to be on the other end of the conversation and I am sure she will be just as nervous as you but before you know it the two of you will be talking up a storm. Start of with telling her the truth like, my name is (what ever) and I do not do this at all as I am so fearful of saying something stupid or coming off as a real idiot so please bear with me, I really am a great guy. It worked on me! Best of luck and I am sure you will be just fine.
2006-12-07 06:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's right in front of your eyes my friend. Go to church. There are many young people that come to our Catholic services every Saturday, they're young, usually alone. I'm surprised at how many come. The Knights of Columbus have a pancake breakfast after mass and coffee and donuts. There's the Moose Lodge that serves drinks but, under controlled conditions of course, the Vets club, the American Legion. With all the Young people coming home from Iraq these places are full of the younger generation. How could you possibly be alone with so many places hoping?
2006-12-07 06:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit thinking of girls as something different from yourself. Girls like to laugh and have fun. Just look at them as someone that might be fun to know, don't think of all the other stuff. When the right girl comes along, you'll know and things will go pretty naturally - and in the meantime you've made some great friends to hang out with!
2006-12-07 06:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first,You are not a loser,you can have a great life.You dont need to have a girl friend to make you a winner in life or whole.You can be a winner just by bieng yourself.Just be happy with who you are,Dont forget that you are an amazing creation of God.You are dear to Him.Just get involved in all those activities that fascinate you,i know you can name them,there are many activities you love to engage in.Do that-a lot.Learn to make yourself happy,and remember that love is somethin that you shouldnt go in search of,true love will come in search of you.Just make yourself complete all by yourself,then,you will never be disappointed in life coz when we expect others to make us happy we are often disappointed.
2006-12-07 07:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
--I felt the same way with my friends having boyfriends. But ya know if you need a girlfriend to make you happy then..... and why cantchoo have a good conv with a girl? you cant just talk about anything? --
2006-12-07 06:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Rin O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the Lord for guidance. He will help guide you through these early years of your life. God bless you.
2006-12-07 06:56:26 · answer #7 · answered by Brand X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a communication class and talk! Don't be shy. It's ok. Everyone had to do it. Once you do it more and more you actually get good at it!
2006-12-07 06:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by alegna_2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a girl doesnt = a life.
2006-12-07 06:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't be too desperate, there's is someone for u.. just wait and keep on looking on her but not all of them.
2006-12-07 06:52:00 · answer #10 · answered by ayhane06 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋