I am really quite shallow and base an awful lot on looks, Lets put it this way. No matter how much of an amazing personality you may have I would never know because If you werent attractive to me I wouldnt even speak to you to find out.... Hell jabba the hut could have a great personality but would you ever want to talk to him the find out....?
Arent we all Shallow...? But only some of us are honest enough to admit it......?
2006-12-06 22:46:31 · 16 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
rondavous : thanks for the inciteful comment. by the way your avatar looks like a man..... And probably looks very similar to you.....
2006-12-06 22:54:29 · update #1
Nope, you are a shallow **** and theres an abundance of you out there. You will never be truly happy either as there's always someone better. Do you think people ask to look the way they do?
What a shame for you.
So Trino, you are a shallow sensitive type then, are you gay? Your hissy-fit would suggest so........take care china
2006-12-06 22:52:29 · answer #1 · answered by rondavous 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course all of us see first the physical aspect of a person and in that way we somehow judge his personality, but its not always bad because with this kind of behavior we get alert if this person is a stalker, or a thief or an insane one, and in this way we can protect ourselves from bad ones. But in a more subjective thinking we really based our opinion on the outside appearance of a person, because were imperfect and just humans.But to the ones who have a good heart they may be also shallow in the the beginning only but after they know the person then they see that this person is beautiful and bright, unlike to the hypocrite ones who just judge to this persons without even trying to know more them..
2006-12-06 23:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Beauty is more than skin deep but we ARE shallow to a certain extent. When we meet someone we become interested in them because they are physically attractive to us. This is with the exception of work colleagues who we kinda have to associate ourselves with. We all have our preferences so we all have a level of 'shallowness' within us. Its unlikely someone will be with someone they found physically unattractive.
What is attractive is dependent on the individual though.
I dont really blame you for feeling like that, at least youre honest.
2006-12-06 22:48:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly don't think that is being shallow. There is alot more to having a good relationship other than your personalities clicking. You have to be attracted to that person. But what is attractive to one, may not be attractive to another, so in the end, it all works out.
2006-12-06 23:09:43 · answer #4 · answered by bostonchick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that everyone has their own ideal of what beauty is, and some people have a type of person they go for so its hard to figure when you say you wouldn't talk to someone if they weren't attractive to you.You can still talk to a person that you may not like in a relationship type of way.Its what you say that will take things further or not don't you think?poor Jabba,he cant help being an ugly fucker!
2006-12-06 22:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah thats a real shame, cause u r probably missing out on some wonderful women
We all go for people we are attracted to and in honesty if u don't fancy someone then whats the point.
But I have many friends who i don't fancy and they are a huge part of my life.
2006-12-06 23:57:10 · answer #6 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hlo' I shd say we've gotta be a lot more open minded cos dis is a sensitive issue... u wudn't find Any Baby on dis earth which isn't cute... well, we have 2 admit tat God DID give us Awesum looks... but den most of us lose it by sheer negligence (tat's our mistake)... so tis important to keep ourselves well groomed! Many lovely relationships tat're triggered by 1st impressions aren't worth losing :) (this is to keep ourselves gud lookin)
D oda side of it... when we look at ppl... (though a gud impression mite attract us) tis very imp to know the person b4 we judge him/her rite/wrong.. beauty is skin depth... but Evil Hearted ppl do not really hav tat Radiant Beauty (somethin tat's got only by happines!!!!
Be happy... be beautiful... make oda's happy... make dem beautiful!! Happy surfing :)
2006-12-06 23:02:01 · answer #7 · answered by Kay :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sure we're all shallow to some extent, whether we admit it or not, but knowing that we have issues, isn't that surely time to take stock of ourselves and think about how others perceive us? Try talking to an 'unattractive' person today, you might be pleasantly surprised
2006-12-06 22:51:53 · answer #8 · answered by grinchygirlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i admit i'm shallow most of the time.............if someones not attractive to look at then i can't imagine anything more happening, other than........ maybe a friendship
2006-12-10 12:12:42 · answer #9 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I would agree that most people go for people they are attracted to because of looks, but we should @
least give everyone a chance to be our friend if
not more, God says to love everyone & it's so SAD that
some people do not do this . ( we don't have to love what they do, just love them)
take care
2006-12-06 22:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋