however there are future plans to meet, is phone s e x a good idea or not and please explain your viewpoint.
Thanks very much to everyone who participates.
2006-12-06 22:31:26 · 19 answers · asked by happy inside 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Having an on-line relationship is not really a relationship and having phone sex is not really sex. My view point is if the two of you are planning on meeting leave the sex part out of the conversation until the two of you meet for real. If he is as wonderful and you think then think of how great the real thing will be. Think of the build up the two of you could have and how special the first time between the two of you will be. It will be a very special time for the both of you so wait. Best of luck and here is hoping he is the perfect guy for you.
2006-12-06 22:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by victoria_bell_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only bad thing about phone sex is that once you meet, if there is no spark in person that it could be uncomfortable for both of you. Also if you do have phone sex and like your not interested but say the other person is there could be an expectation of real sex when you meet, that if not compatible would be pressure on you. I think because people can say and show you any picture online keeping it just friends is better until you know that their is a real connection in person. just my opinion
2006-12-07 06:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by mommyblues78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear it's a really bad idea, don't do it.
you don't know who this guy is, you can't just look deep in his eyes though net, so you can never tell if he really deserves you, talking nice to you doesn't have yo mean that he will keep his promise, who knows what might happen???!
maybe he changes his plans for seeing you one day but your phone sex makes him come just to see if you are god in bet as you are on the phone? , who would you feel then?
Don't do some thing you may regret one day, show his that you don't do sex that easy because if he is after sex only, he will drop it off, if not he will go on with you
one more advice. in case you didn't do that sex phone and you saw him as you two planing do do it in your first dates,...
try to show him who you really are first
Good luck
2006-12-07 06:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by Princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe in phone sex. It is a waste of time. You have to get down to earth and try to get know about this guy by talking to him. If you think you like him meet him and take it from there.
2006-12-07 06:36:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask me dont meet in person at all. The fun of contacting online will go. There should always be an excitement and I feel you should keep it up and enjoy online contact.
2006-12-07 06:35:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kumari V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Phone sex is not a turn on for me I appreciate the intimacy of a personal relationship with a real person who is warm and loving.
2006-12-07 06:34:45 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do phone s e x but definately talk to him on the phone. If there's a connection then you should be able to tell. Talking on the computer and on the phone are two way different things.
2006-12-07 06:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just talk on the phone first and then see where it goes. I say phone sex is better than sleeping with that person on the first date.
2006-12-07 06:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my point of view...online relationships aren't good...you don't know if it's legal (like if he's married or has a gf...)...you should probably meet him in person...talk about each others intentions...observe him if he's sincere...(but when you go see him...be with someone...but don't let him see who you're with...you might just want to secure yourself from people who have bad intentions.)...phone sex is a bad idea...you don't wanna give up yourself yo someone whom you haven't met at all...if he's sincere of wht he feels he wouldn't just keep your relationship as cyber thing...he willl take it to the next level...
2006-12-07 06:41:49 · answer #9 · answered by JK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually when you meet him it's going to be so weird. It's like you have never known this person. I say hold on till you meet him!
2006-12-07 06:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by alegna_2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋