everytime i meet sum 1 nice he always wants one thing from me sex and thats it come on wheres all the nice guy. i never have cheated its always them that have cheated on me i dont understand wats wrong with me and everytime i see my friends they are always cuddling kissin their boyfriends i feel so left out and im not jealous of their relationships im happy for them and please dont say theres plenty of fish in the sea or you will find someone nice coz everyone tells me that already i dont like users just want a boyfriend who will like me for me and not anyone else please help
2006-12-06 22:31:25 · 16 answers · asked by blue_lead_sky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hi there . maybe me ,im looking 4 u , where r u now ? u take care .
2006-12-07 00:42:50 · answer #1 · answered by boby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre not odd at all!!!!!!!!
You may find someone eventually but the question youre probably asking yourself, is when? Im in the same position, well, actually most my friends dont have boyfriends, just kinda sex buddies.
Anyway, I sometiems think that the person I am suppose to meet is not even int he country I live in...I'll just wait a while but if I turn 30 and am single, I'll start to get a lil worried!
2006-12-06 22:39:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress_T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you don't need a boyfriend now, just be patient you'll find some one. IN the mean time, listen to how much your girlfriends complain about their boyfriends and be glad it isn't you. Maybe look for some one who is a little older than you since most guys are immature jerks maybe one who is a couple of years older than you might want to b e serious and not fool around on you. Just be careful what you ask for, you just might get it.
2006-12-06 22:37:39 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it sounds cliched, but he will turn up when you least expect him to. If you are putting yourself out there as someone seeking male company, you're only gonna attract the git-bags. I'm sure they're born with a 6th sense about these tjhings. I met my husband when I was with someone(although that relationship was not going anywhere and coincidentally I finished that on the Tuesday and he was set up on a blind date with me on the Wednesday), but there was definitely a mutual thing going on. Have faith sista, love works in mysterious ways, enjoy your you time. Guys love to see a confident happy outgoing girl, when you're truly being yourself, that's when he'll spot the real you, and the guy who wants that will come and ask (politely) for it!!
Good luck sweetie
2006-12-06 22:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by grinchygirlie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you are asking for seems to be a hard thing to find now but don't give up and don't give in. In other words don't give (IT) away to somebody just because you are lonely. I can guarantee that it will not make a man stay with you. Just keep on being who you are. Every woman that doesn't just give (IT) away is special to us guys because they are so many that do. 1 day someone will see how special you are. Just hang in there.
2006-12-06 22:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a man, but you're correct - most men are pigs and you can thank liberalism for this.
However, I'm not like that but I haven't been able to get a date in years and years, and no one will look twice or give me the time of day. And what's funny, any woman with hardly any exception reading this will think to herself: "There has to be something wrong with him."
2006-12-06 22:34:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know u although i'll loved to. I'm a guy in the same shoes, i always love girls and prefer to exclude sex for a later time but to the it gets unbearable.
I've thoght of it and i feel the best thing to do is to state your terms before entering into one.
I wish you good luck
2006-12-06 22:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Baiodun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's great too be single and not date! I've been single and dateless for 13 years. Never cheated on a woman, never lied to one either. But, they like those guys who treat 'em like crap, so what chance have I got??
2006-12-06 22:37:40 · answer #8 · answered by Feeling new @ 42 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well all my friends are married and I'm the only single one. I'm told that I'm too picky...I don't think I should just settle for someone I have high standards...Of course all guys want is sex....and if the chemistry is there why not....just be safe.
2006-12-06 23:57:53 · answer #9 · answered by Tab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, you seem nice and well balanced, those guys aren't right for you. If your patient the right person for you will come along eventually.
2006-12-06 22:35:03 · answer #10 · answered by wrongjon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you no what you sound exactly like me, all my friends have at least had their first love and i haven't. But all i can tell you is what other people have told me, the perfect partner for you is just waiting he will walk into your life when you least execpt it so just keep looking!!! -x- M
2006-12-06 22:34:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋