My bf wanted to have sex with me & 1 time he tried, he says its so hard to do & i too feeled very painful,?

Question

He says that he was getting some white substances from his penis he gone mad (in so much of romantic mood) at that time, at last he remarks that it was not happening, I also feeled to do that, my question is am'i having that thing or not which will makes my boy feel happy, i have heared from my friends that both partner have to involve in it, how i want to involve? Really i don't no how to do sex or how to feel at that time.I feel ashame to say this to my bf. pls tell me how to solve my problem? At present also iwant to feel that sense but i don't no.
plssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss help.

Answer 1

Mona;
I can tell from your note that you are way too young. I know things can get exciting,but just put this off for awhile. You won't regret it.

Answer 2

Are you old enough to have sex ? I dont think so. Dont worry about what you mentioned. You are doing fine.. everybody goes through the same thing when its a first time. Go slow and learn how to please each other (tell your BF also) - there are other exciting things in your/his body besides the penetration. Enjoy that first. Pls ask him to wear condom too ! Its safe for you unless you want to get pregnant !

Answer 3

okay listen mona.... foreplay is very very important... thats how you get involved... like get high on emotions and create that desire to go ahead with it.. then you will get wet too and things will be easier for you and your bf...

there is no rule or WAY of getting involved... just remember that you are there to please your bf and he is htere to satisfy your needs... at time when you are making out... you dont need to be shy... things will be that way and ultimately if you two believe in getting married then there isnt much to be shy about right? U need to get that desire in you to have your bf make out with you... it also depends how old are you... if you are like 15 16 then i think you arent ready for it...

as for your bf side... he should realize that you are maybe more scared and shy of it than excited and wanting to do it... cuz they day you are excited about it.. you will be wild and will by itself get wet and ready even before your bf tries to do anything to you with his penis

as far as white stuff from his penis is concerned... thats very natural because when guys get erection they do have some white substance flowing out of their penis... before they get the full sperm... just be careful that he doesnt drop either of the two substances in your virgina.. else you will get pregnant.

good luck!

Answer 4

how old r u? i think u r still not matured enought to enjoy sex. or u hav a feeling that u r doing something wrong.

Anyway...time will teach u how to do sex. Dono't be so hurry. watch some movies.

Answer 5

When you learn to walk first time or drive car,cycle or any new thing you do in your life you get some difficluties.
Later , when you pratice all difficalties goes away.

Answer 6

you both might be a child
because male losses {white} you told it is sperm it has the ability to make a new person it is his body part ok
and pleaase nnever try again this this might cann lead to you AIDS or pragnant
please use condoms to avoid every kind of risk [e-mail]

u r like my friend please look atleast once on my advice and be in contact for any diff/problem
bye

Answer 7

you ask question is ok, but never contact people in person here, they might lure you kid.

and dont be kiddish, take a gynecologists advise. only she will be able to check you and tell you what to do and how to do. so better go to a gynec even if you are a kid.

Answer 8

HOW OLD R U ? U NEED TO BE PREPARED TO HAVE SEX HEY

Answer 9

you may not be ready, take it slow you need to be into it first , he shoulg make sure you are ready.

Answer 10

u must make long lovemaking time