how can i relax and be able to have sex with my partner i just get all uptight and i feel like it is really wrong and i cant relax into it i an 25 weeks pregnant and i love my partner dearly he does not preesure me about it and says we are still close and we kiss and cuddle every day i do love him and i miss the close bond help.....
2006-12-06 22:26:27 · 13 answers · asked by rachrara 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to your doctor he can reassure you that it is okay to have sex.
2006-12-06 22:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well i suggest you to consult your doctor!! i mean if it would not be harmful for the baby in any sense then you can have it. And if it's just about not being relaxed, then trust me its not a good idea to have it if you are not comfortable.
Think about the sweet things -- you are lucky to have such a loving partner, He would also have been missing that closeness between you and him, but he is not complaining. There is no difference in your relation, Wait for your baby, then you would have a lot of time fir these things :)
Be Happy and good luck for your baby !!
2006-12-06 22:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same hun, your shape is changing so fast you're not quite sure who you are any more, my hubby and i decided to just relax and let things flow and we came up with some quite nice positions that we both enjoyed. personally i didnt enjoy sex at all past 30 weeks, i felt huge and would suggest you make the most of your smaller frame now. be assured that sex will not harm your unborn. easier said than done with regards to relaxing but i would take a nice bath and see if that helps. good luck xx
2006-12-06 22:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by louise 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well all you have todo is to talk to your partner explain to him how you are feel i guess he will give you the support you need in time like this be open to him he loves you tell him you are missing the close bond between you two
2006-12-06 23:35:20 · answer #4 · answered by Lord Glyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a massage first to help you relax, you don't have to have full sex but if that is really what you want then you need to remember that there is no harm to the baby. find a position that you are comfortable with. don't plan to have sex just take it back to the dating days when you kiss and touch then find yourself ready, good luck
2006-12-06 22:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me.... 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Relax, having sex will not hurt they baby or you. It is my experience that sex is better while pregnant (for both parties). Try it and if you are uncomfortable then don't do it again. It sounds to me that your partner is very understanding besides there are other ways to please each other sexually.
2006-12-06 23:08:44 · answer #6 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its alright tohave sex even if your at your final semester. Only consideration is you must feel comfortable abot it. Try the rear entry.
2006-12-06 22:29:38 · answer #7 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well they do say threes a crowd dont they?!dont wanna have babys eye out now
2006-12-06 23:25:08 · answer #8 · answered by pinkydinkydoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not?
Wait for the child to come out first.
2006-12-06 22:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by chilling_1ce 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It won't hurt the baby, really.
2006-12-06 22:29:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋