2006-12-06 22:26:07 · 13 answers · asked by shane 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might want to back up and tell him to figure out his mess before you guys get into anything. That's the best thing to do.
2006-12-06 22:28:07 · answer #1 · answered by DLB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he have this gf before you?? If so then he is a cheater & I would not put up with that because he put you in an akward spot, of not even knowing that you were the other woman. If he got a gf during then he started a relaionship with her based on lies & he should not have the pleasure of either of you, But hey what if there are even more of you out there that don't know what you didn't know until now?? Stay away, far away from him, you don't deserve to be treated like that...take care
2006-12-07 06:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by lori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could not follow "the stage of mutual". If it is mutual understanding I would like to know in what? However, if he is serious and loyal to you he would not have tried to get another girl friend. That means there is a deep meaning in what you mentioned as "mutual".
2006-12-07 06:30:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kumari V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back out for a while and wait for the right time to see if he is not a play boy. Then you can decide whether to continue being mutual or just friends
2006-12-07 06:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Queeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shane is a guy's name, so I assume you are a guy after another guy. Leave him alone, he's got a GF and that's probably a better deal than what you have to offer him...but, it's just a guess. I wouldn't know the first thing about gay relations!!!
2006-12-07 06:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand back. Distance yourself. She is in his life because he wants her in his life. Stay on stand by as a friend. Only if it does not hurt you. If it does end your relationship with him. It was never meant to happen further than what it has. I think you have answered your own question. Honor your self before all others. Good luck babe.
2006-12-07 06:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. There are plenty cute fish in the sea.
2006-12-07 06:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him. You deserve better man than him.
2006-12-07 06:27:30 · answer #8 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not being truthful with you so why would you want anything to do with him?
2006-12-07 06:28:31 · answer #9 · answered by tcbtoday123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away becaue you are only asking for trouble.
2006-12-07 06:27:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋