i islamic u cant convert or marry from christain man, i am now in uk and want come back home egypt but i afraid because my baby not muslim as it should be in islamic and my husband not, so i dont know what i do , if my family knew that they will kill me or people if u know about islamic u will understand what i say, i dont know what i do before i back home ,
2006-12-06 22:04:00 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Be patient & remain Muslim.
make ur baby a Muslim.
& GOD will help you.
2006-12-06 22:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by just curious 4 · 3⤊ 12⤋
I know plenty about Islamic Law and NO i dint understand what you have to say. Firstly if you want to leave Islam just do it, no one is stopping you or forcing you to be a Muslim. You most certainly can convert and you already have married a christian man so why are you saying you "cant" when you already have. Secondly as a Muslim you would know all children before puberty are considered Muslim whether there parents are Muslim or not. Egypt is full of Christians and I seriously doubt your family is going to kill you. You are either not a Muslim and are making up a nice story to fit into peoples already warped stereotype of how Muslims are or you are a very uneducated Muslim, and are seriously ill informed.
I just read other questions you have posted and you said your husband is 58 and you are 20 that he is not good to you, he disrespects you,shouting at you alot, hugging other women in pubs in front of you etc etc. Is this your "christian" husband you are supposedly talking about? You also said you are not close to your family, so why all of a sudden now are you so worried what they are going to think.
2006-12-06 22:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your husband cares about you then take him and get away from your family. I've heard of situations like this. Its brave of you to take this stand. You can tell your family there's no such thing as a Muslim child anyway, or a Christian child. He can decide if he wants to be religious when he's old enough to express an opinion. Until then teach him to think for himself, to have skepticism enough to get by and wonder enough to see the beauty of the world but not get bogged down in the hypocrisy of faith.
If your family really care about you then they should come to forgive you. If you want to return home some time then maybe it would be best to keep it secret. Other answerers may feel thats moral or intellectual cowardice but families in Muslim countries have been known to kill their own children if they marry the wrong person or confess not to be Muslim.
I'm sorry to say going home isnt a good idea.
2006-12-06 22:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make the decision of what is right to do for you, your husband and your baby. Some people love their faith more than their kin and you may be faced with a family that do not wish to know you as you have not followed the Muslim faith. Contact your family first before you take the step to return. See how the land/feelings lay with them. If they decide to shun you because of this then stay in the UK and contact them from time to time to mend the bridges that have been broken.
Sometimes it's so sad that faith can over rule love of a family.
Good luck
2006-12-06 22:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tabbyfur aka patchy puss 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are 7 million Christians in Egypt. If you believe all the comments on this site about muslims, then they should all be dead by now.
If you want to marry a christian man (or are already married to one) then think about your reasons for doing this. I suspect that you are one of many "muslims" who have never found the time to discover the meaning and beauty in Islam.
My suggestion is to find out about Islam and share this with the christian you want to marry/husband. He may become a Muslim just as christian missionaries and preachers (like Yusuf Estes) have become muslims.
PS. Having read one of your other questions in which you say that you are married and you saw your husband hugging another woman in the pub, I suggest you find out about Islam first. It is always a good idea to find out what you are thinking of saying "no" to. You can also watch islam channel (sky 813) or unity channel (sky 825) and phone in with your questions.
2006-12-06 22:41:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nothing to say? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i am a Muslim girl who has married outwith my religion. I haven't spoken to my family in nearly 5 years, it doesn't mean that i don't care about them or my religion...what it means is that i love my husband and my two adorable children to him. My parents will always be my parents...nothing or no1 can change that and my religion will always be in my heart..no1 can take that away from me. U need to be strong and stand up for yourself and ur beliefs. Don't let any1 tell you any different. The only 1 u need 2 answer 2 is Allah and if u are true to urself I'm sure He will be true to you.
2006-12-06 23:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a lot of muslim women and men who have married out of their religion. Noone in Egypt is going to kill you. They have better things to think about. Your family may take it offensively as anyone would. A girl i know converted to Islam and her family disowned her. its a natural reaction. the middle east is a very modern place with a lot of inter racial marriages. I think what u posted is fake just to make egyptians looks bad. If u really did ever live in egypt u would know that this is hardly a problem. save your silly stories for some place else. and if u've married a christian man then just stay where he is. why do u even want to go back to egypt if its as bad as ur saying?
2006-12-06 22:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by :) 4 · 2⤊ 3⤋
U have a big problem, U will have to either stay in the UK or tell ur parents before u head home to Egypt. There is no other way unless ur husband converts. Good luck
2006-12-06 22:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by booh 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
If your husband is British then you can apply for citizenship then your rights should be protected as a British citizen abroad (the UK has no arms deals going on with Egypt at the moment to no conflicts there as per Saudi)
2006-12-06 22:08:05 · answer #9 · answered by sid 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Stay in the UK for the moment. Have your husband help you out. Do not go back until you know that you and your child are 100% safe. I feel for you.
The reason you can't go back is because of people who responded right above me. This sadness me that some people are so intolerant.
2006-12-06 22:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Just Wondering 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Can you stay in the UK ?You are putting yourself and your husband and daughter at risk by going back to Egypt at the moment.
2006-12-06 22:11:43 · answer #11 · answered by Serena 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋