and me and her have been going out since grade 5 but now we want to take our relationship to a new lvl without havein sex how can we do that?
2006-12-06 21:40:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by a whole new lvl i mean an upgrade. me and her have aggred that we need to boot up the relationship with out having sex
2006-12-06 21:45:29 · update #1
Please hold back, don't do it.
2006-12-06 21:43:55 · answer #1 · answered by popo dean 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex. You did already say that though. That's good. Try new things. Sounds like you two may need to find different fun things to do. Search websites and find creative ideas. Nothing changes if nothing changes. Just don't make the wrong choice for change...it could be something you may have to deal with the rest of your lives. Go slow...whats the hurry? Aha to be fifteen again. It goes by faster than you know. Don't live in the future or you will miss whats going on now. All that adult stuff will be there I promise!!
2006-12-07 05:53:22 · answer #2 · answered by somebodys_watchn_you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm impressed that you and her are NOT going to have sex! That is such a smart move at your age.
As for taking it to the next level, how about doing something really important and life changing together like volunteering at a teen pregnancy centre or a non-profit daycare or a homeless shelter or helping to cook a Christmas dinner for the elderly.
All of those activities are acts of love that can be shared with each other and to your whole community.
Your parents must be so proud of the son they have! Good on you.
2006-12-07 05:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Banting B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At last someone whith a brain! i think as long as you are both happy going to "a next level" then that is great, dont force anything though. But waiting before having s*x is a fab idea you cant get back your virginity once it is gone and you want it to be with someone right! As for ideas take it at whatever pace you both feel ok with and if things do get too much move back down to kissing or something? Well done for a good question! Need more lads like you :-)
2006-12-07 05:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres lots of things u can do!!! Start taking her out on dates, goto the movies with her. Do you have a job or some money? Buy her a nice necklace. Anything to show her u want her and only her. Also, if you havent done so, meet each others parents. That will take an enteresting turn for you guys. Alot of people will tell u ur too yung to be trying all that, but dont listen to them kid. Im 18 and im with my lover. Everyone always tells me im too yung but wat do they know right? Im plannin to marry her later in life. Have ur relationships how you want them. If you guys do think about having sex, STRAP UP!!! Use a condom. It saves drama. Just ask me and my girl lol. im helpin her taken care of someone else kid. Hope i helped out!!!
2006-12-07 05:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a relationship is not all sex, it's a feeling to. So, just take it to the next level.
How? Have you seen her parents? No? Go meet them and let hers meet your, but because you are so young, I assume that you already met them and she your. You could buy her a nice, not so expensive ring and give it to her and say that you really love her.
I am so not good at this........just have sex? Maybe play a little and just cuddle?
Well...Good luck anyway.
2006-12-07 05:45:50 · answer #6 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how things are with you two right now. When you're older, taking it to the next level can be : having sex, getting engaged or getting married. I don't think these steps are for you right now ;-)
Maybe it's time to get to know each others families. Do her parents know about you ? And yours, do they know about her ? Do you spend time at her house or she at yours ? And how well does your parents know you/her ?
How well do you know her ? Know what she likes to eat, drink, wear, do, where she loves to hang out ? What does she like to do with her spare time ? Favorite author, book, movie ... And how well does she know you ?
When you're not with her do you know where she is ? What she's doing ? I'm not talking about being the jealous type and want to know where she is and who she's with. I mean from the angel of knowing her and what she likes to do in specific times and hours.
Or how about doing new things together ? Somethings you didn't do before.. New place to go to, to hang out, new kinds of movies, new restaurant...
2006-12-07 05:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excellent thinking. Just don't be too intimate with each other. Better do activities in a group with the same thinking. Don't be influenced by others who are having pre-marital sex. Good luck.
2006-12-07 05:44:38 · answer #8 · answered by Gem 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What fun do u like..rotan caning for unnatural sex with underage girl.we hv decided to report to the relvant authories should u commit the crime
2006-12-07 05:47:20 · answer #9 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be best friends to each other. Share your every emotion, stand for the other when he/she is in need. :) Sex is not the only way to bring a relation to higher level, dear. Tell me who gave you this misconception??? Just be yourself, be faithful to each other, care for each other and have trust on each other.
Good Luck !!
2006-12-07 05:45:58 · answer #10 · answered by shon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont worry ima chick my avatar looks gay. Well get ready ad puck-her-up 5th grade is a long time parents no? wow being 13, i dont no anyone who dates to long. Every one is a playercept u cool
2006-12-07 16:03:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋