can you help me???i dont know what will i do....
i really like him and not only like...i love him.....
but now he decided to break with me.......
2006-12-06 21:14:57 · 31 answers · asked by honie_lyn19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I we're u...I'll flirt wid his best friend to get him jealous and asks u to be an item again!! hehe!!
No...just joking!!!
I'll party hard wid my friends....drink hard....and get over him and start to live a life wid out him!
Ask ur mom advices....she went through d same trouble wen she's still single.....
Then ask urself.....wat did I do?
What did he not like? Is he bored wid me so he just threw me like an old rug?
If u've answered sumtin not right....maybe that's it...
but don't force him 2 love u again.....
u know u can't command d heart...
follow ur heart anyway......
gud luck!!
2006-12-06 21:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by blues0oda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break Up 911
While you deal with pain of your current situation & complete the exercises in the workbook, you can:
Log into the forum & share your story with other brokenheartedgirls.
Listen to empowering songs (not break up songs!).
# "I Will Survive" - Gloria Gaynor
# "Fighter" - Christine Aguilera
# "Believe" - Cher
# "Real Love" - Mary J. Blige
# "The Middle" - Jimmy Eat World
Throw away - or put away - lingerie that reminds you of him. You know - the panties you wore on your first date, that wonderbra that he loved... You don't need a daily reminder of those memories rightnow.
Create physical distance between you and your ex. If you work with him, see him at school, or live next door to him, make sure you change your schedule a bit so you don't run into him as often as you normally would. Don't go to the usual places where he hangs out.
Look through your old photo albums. Remember that you were happy once upon a time without him. Remind yourself that you can be happy without him again.
Call your parents, a favorite aunt, or an old friend.
Write in your journal.
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2006-12-06 21:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Sbrown 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It takes two hands to clap. So if he is not willing to stay in the relationship, you can't keep him and make him do it. Let him go, it will be easier for you to get over him. You will feel sad, lots of thoughts/memories about you both together will spring up constantly all the time. Think about everything, however long you want to and get over him. Go shopping, watch great movies, bake/cook things that you like and enjoy yourself. As you are doing this, join up a gym or go swimming or go to any place that will promote your physical fitness/activity, it keeps the mind progressive and you will get happier seeing more people and new ones at that. Make friends with them. You will eventually find a great guy who will vibe with you on the same mental wave length. Take care beautiful woman! Think the best about yourself at all times!
2006-12-06 21:19:54 · answer #3 · answered by happykat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 40 9 you may have some journey.. you already know that its going to break good now and till you hit upon some thing else or somebody new.. Dont difficulty along with her anymore.. she took great ingredient approximately your generosity.. and in case you preserve conversing to her you will continually have a gap on your coronary heart for her yet she would be able to save hurting you.. terrific element to do is overlook bout her.. flow on.. she needless to say has.. while she see's your no longer there for her anymore she finally go away you on my own.. sorry to envision what your dealing with.. no you will conflict with the aid of this.. i comprehend it hurts.. discover some thing to occupy your self with..
2016-10-05 00:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulation! If him don't break with you, you won't have a chance to know actually there are so much better, handsome guys in this world waiting for you!!! celebrate it !!! open up you eye and you heart, look around, you will know what I said is true. Never because of 1 tree and give up the forest!!
2006-12-06 21:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cy Crazy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feelings you have. It is little tough to move on but life is bigger than anything else, isn't it. Of course you cannot find someone else immediately, you wont like to.
So take up something extreme: like take some tough assignment, take up some very tough sport, something challenging like learning new musical instrument. Travel to tough places etc.
And .... talk to your friends/family, share your feelings with them. Sometimes, it is actually fun to talk these things. You will get over it. He did not have courage to be committed to you so forget and go on!
2006-12-06 21:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Infinite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A romance novel works for me. If you go out your not in the right frame of mind and might make wrong decisions. If you love him let him go, if he comes back, hes yours if he doesn't, then he never was <--- an old saying but true to this day.!! Good luck Sweetie.
2006-12-06 21:20:13 · answer #7 · answered by hot single mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a bridge and get over it.
The old adage is what you can't have is much more tasty than what you have, maybe a break will make you more attractive to him etc etc. But sounds like you need to move on and find a new ray of sunshine
2006-12-06 21:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by curlyhurlymo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on, in time your broken heart will heal. start going out with your friends , keep busy. one day the right one will come your way. I wish getting over someone you really love will heal fast but it takes time. be strong.
2006-12-06 21:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Console yourself 4 luck. Every ray of hope is not always bright.
Concentrate your mind for the nursing the sick and helping the poor.
2006-12-06 21:22:03 · answer #10 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋