Ok I got pregnant and had a lot of problems out of my babies DONOR which was my b.f at the time.. We split up and he left adn told me that he hopes the worsst for me..well then he told me that he know the baby isnt his or is dead b.c his mom wasnt have any cravings(thats is the dumbest thing I heard) then I got all of these calls saying he was goign to cme and take her and I would never see her again.. and he was going to get custody and all that and he threatened to kill us..
well then I got with this other guy when i was 2 mo pregnant and he was there for me through all of my pregnancy and the other guy stopped callin at about 6 mo and then never called again.. until she after she was born and while i was preg. my mom was calling and telling him what was going on..then he said not to contact him or his family..
so when I gave birth to her I let my new b/f sign the birth cert. knowing he wasnt the father..so now heres the ?s
what can the real dad do
does he have ne rights
2006-12-06 21:12:14 · 7 answers · asked by your babies mama 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
was this mean of me..?
and if he wanted to get a dna test would i have to do it since she has the other guys last name?
please help
2006-12-06 21:13:41 · update #1
as of right now he has rights?? how can he if he isnt on the cert??? or doesnt even knwo he is the donor
2006-12-06 21:33:02 · update #2
It wasn't mean, it was stupid. It would be better to leave it blank than to have some other guy sign it. When you split (sorry, if) you could go after the 2nd guy for support, because he probably signed an affid(something) of paternity at the same time. Legally - I'm not sure how much this could cost you. That was a legal document and you lied - and you knew you were lying.
Biological dad could sue for a paternity test. You better have a good reason for why you did this - and not just because he was mean to you and yelled.
2006-12-06 21:22:13 · answer #1 · answered by kris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, for one the other man allowed his name on the birth certificate and until he denies that he is the father the biological father CANNOT get a DNA test. The courts do not have the time to be dealing with this, and they cannot force your bf to take a test, which would be the first person they would test because his name is on the birth certificate. AND if this is pursued and the biological father achieves his goal of the DNA test, THEN he would have to go to court to have his name put on the birth certificate and the court would order child support the same day. Then another date would be scheduled, if he pursed custody, and he would have to PROVE that you are unfit, unable, and unwilling to care for your child, and he HAS to prove ALL three. Plus all of this costs money and guess who would get the bill? HE DOES! Just so you know, that would be:
2 DNA tests = $200
2 days in court = $104
Now do you think he will pursue this?
2006-12-08 07:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to go through a lot of things to get custody. That's including testing and court fees. So if it is his bady, then he does have rights.
And if that does happened, then you going to be in a lot of trouble because your 2nd bf signed the birth cert. This might cost you a lot.
2006-12-07 05:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by spyra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu know what girl!!!!
I relate to all of this you typed!!!!!
i have to much of a long story to put down so if you like to chat just email me!
but other than all these Negative comments about him suing you and all this court and DNA stuff!!!!!
Drop your worrys cause it is not gonna happen!
been there done that!
Have a happy life with your child and your new boyfriend!
2006-12-07 05:53:25 · answer #4 · answered by Destiny & Faith's Mommy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, if he wants a dna test ..he can still get it. having a name on the birth certificate doesnt really mean hes the real BIOLOGICAL father. the baby daddy still has rights.
2006-12-07 05:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he wants a DNA test and is prepared to pay for it then yes you will have to allow it to be done.
2006-12-07 05:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by cailieco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wouldn't the best thing to do be - consult a lawyer???
2006-12-07 07:05:13 · answer #7 · answered by Dixie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋