2006-12-06 21:08:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well..that's love..and you know what sad about it???
its when you happen to know that there's just no hope for you being together yet you still pray to make it work..its when your mindsays let go but your heart says hold on..its when you dream of him almost everynight only towake up in the morning wihttears in your eyes..and most of all..its when no matter how you try to forget him you just can't coz of the fact that you still love him and you just don't know why.....
i think he didn't really love you because he shouldn't have left you like that..in the first place..
THE OLD BELIEF:if you love someone..let him go..if he cums back..he's yours forever..
THE TRUTH MODIFICATION:if you luv someone..let him go..if he comes back..that doesn't mean a damn thing coz he can always leave you again..and if he loves you..he shouldn't have left you in the first place..
so let him go..and forget him..time will heal the wound
2006-12-06 21:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by yucanzee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am going through the same thing, it broke off saturday!i have had a bad day today, but i know it will get better and that there has to be a good day that will equal this bad time. there is the 'one day' to look forward to which is the the one day that you dont think of him first thing in the morning and from there it gets better. i didnt expect to feel as crappy as i am over this guy because i thought we were in the same place, little did i know!!! but you cannot win someone back, it is best to just let things be, otherwise it may end up that you will just be unhappy always or that you have to go throught this again, just be brave darling, but after the bad morning i have had, it is nice to know that im not the only one, but there is always a plan for better things just you wait!! x
2006-12-06 21:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he has called it off and disappointted you, why would you want to get his heart, unless it was with a knife of course?
He has let you down on this occasion, what's to say that he won't do it again in the future, should you 'win him back'??!!!
Forget him and find someone else that will be loyal to you and not disappoint you and I don't just mean in bed.
2006-12-06 21:14:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
babe, love isnt about holding on, and making people see how much you love them. its a two way street, when you say you want his heart, to be in his heart, have you considered his heart, his wants, or just your current state of mind?
i think give him space firstly, as i have seen many women, make a total fool out of themselves, cos they are impatient, and in the end, thats the final straw for some guys.....
i dont know its tricky , in life and love - i guess you learn you cant push your dream on another, or you will spend alot of time, holding on , years.... i wish you all the best.
2006-12-06 21:18:03 · answer #4 · answered by aisha l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know your addicted to him, in other words, you love him so much you can never leave him. That is not true. He is not Mr. Right cuz you are to addited to him. I am afraid, if i was in your shoes, I would gather all my courage and let him go. You might cry, you might feel free, but remember don't let him get to you!
2006-12-06 21:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by - Eiren - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become popular and present yourself as confident and attractive, wanting him is a sign of weakness and is unattractive. Subconsciously the greatest way to be attractive to someone is power. If you beg or show that you want him more than he wants you, you will be a toy.
2006-12-06 21:11:43 · answer #6 · answered by Tyson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see it is really painful being in this situation
Since you asked advice, so i am putting up my thought... may not be true in all cases
When he dont love u, may be for any reason, than i would say he is not worth to you
he dont even deserve u
he not capable to judging ur beauty(innner or outer)
on sense in running behind such a fool, who dont understand you
better leave him alone and think he was not worth to u
and that guy realised it first, so he left you
for ur better
2006-12-06 21:13:11 · answer #7 · answered by He_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just dont do what Lilly Allen does in one of her vids....thats just evil and cruel...and Lilly must be stopped from singing her evil tripe! Let him go...love is consentual...life is full of things we think are unfair...but they make us who we are...time to grow up a little bit more I am afraid.
(I am not being sarcastic...I mean it sincerely)
2006-12-06 21:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by michael s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep trying to "get to his heart" its just going to push him away further.let him go and hope that he will realise what hes lost,if he doesnt,then theres nothing you can do
2006-12-06 21:14:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away and let him come running and then play it cool that will teach him oh and dont go telling people that will tell him that your missing him, if his mates ask hoe you are tell them that your great and having a ball,
2006-12-06 21:11:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋