I don't like like a lot of people looking at me, I would feel so self-conscious!
2006-12-06 20:17:27 · 10 answers · asked by Ambience 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
defiantly... I refused to leave the Salon and my husband had to come and get me himself ...I was terrified and had an anxiety attack. I wanted a small wedding 30 people and he convinced me to have 800 people. After the event was in full swing I was OK.
2006-12-06 20:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the exact thing I am most scared about for my wedding day. At work, I can be the boss and at the center of attention. However, when it comes to my personal life, I can't stand it. It makes me cringe just to think about all the people that will be staring at me going down the aisle, commenting on my dress, my wedding preparations, my groom, my jewelry...
However, a friend of mine is recommending meditation. Just focus your excess energy on your guy and the vows you will be making. Focus on your emotions and just enjoy the experience. Having heard her say that, I am starting to feel less crazy about people looking at me.
2006-12-08 01:48:22 · answer #2 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend that you are on a Hollywood set. I am a teacher, used to being the center of attention, and I was scared when all eyes were on me as I walked down that aisle. Embrace the moment! It will happen to you only once, (wel maybe twice)
2006-12-07 04:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by theverygrouchyladybug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I recently got married and i am the same way you are when it comes to being the center of attention.I didnt even want to dance in front of everyone. When your big day comes, all that anxiety will leave. You are so excited about the day is finally here that you dont even think about it.
2006-12-07 05:45:25 · answer #4 · answered by Katrina S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend is getting married next year and she is exactly the same. She is getting married abroad with only around 6 people going. She wanted a quiet intimate wedding
Maybe its a good idea for you to do something similar?
Good Luck!!!
2006-12-07 04:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica Rabbit 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES! I told my bf I wanted to go to the courthouse just so everyone would not be looking at me. He still insisted on a real weddidng though.
2006-12-07 09:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by licorasy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me too. I wanted to elope. Turned out to have a great time anyway. don't regret the day ; just the marriage.
2006-12-07 04:21:47 · answer #7 · answered by uknowme 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am a shy person. i was most nervous at the ceremony because everyone would be looking at me. well after i walked down the aisle i blocked everything out except my husband and the minister. at the reception everything was fine, after the first dance everyone was busy eating, drinking, and dancing...don't stress out, enjoy yourself!
2006-12-07 13:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by Jenn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse....they could all be there for the wedding night too.
2006-12-07 04:26:49 · answer #9 · answered by mmd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why I'm eloping!!!!
2006-12-07 11:06:03 · answer #10 · answered by leela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋