So heres a scenario...I've known a girl for a while. We've both liked each other for a few weeks and both know it but I guess haven't really let each other know we know lol. Anyway going on a proper date this weekend, hope to finally kiss her. If I do, would it be inappropriate to discuss being a couple then? With a month long winter break from college I think it'd be better to be together over the break because it'd probably make it harder if we weren't.
Thanks
2006-12-06 19:57:56 · 6 answers · asked by Ravensman04 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmm...
wel, as u said, u 2 hav liked eachother for a few weeks, which is quite awile. so id say id would be perfectly appropriate if u asked her about being a couple. Go on you date, n enjoy yourself. if, towards your date, your completely sur u wanna be with her, ask her about it. explain that u wouldnt wanna let the winter break ruin things...n that u truly wanna be with her. im sur she'd be extremely flattered n touched. n she better say yes, or il giv her a piece of my mind =P!! stay sweet n gud luck wit everytin!!
2006-12-06 20:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by noodles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're in College?
Well anyways, don't rush her into a relationship, especially at the end of a date, relationships' can be such an innappropriate topic to discuss at that time (unless it's someone elses funny one). No offense.
Just take it easy and relax. It doesn't matter if you're dating or not, eespecially after one kiss. Let her trust you and develope a little comfort so she's not being pressured into being your boyfriend.
All you need is a little patience and before you know it, you two will get things oving and then one day after a few weeks of being "together" someone will make the mistake of asking if you're dating and one of the two of you will most likely say yes.
It's how it always is for me.
Your focus: treating her right.
2006-12-06 20:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonimo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think you should ask her, and if you know she really likes you too make it special. And when you kiss her make sure you close your eye and hold her really tight to you softly and gentle, be a good guy to her and I hope this work out for you 2.
2006-12-06 20:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you feel the right time would be! Ask her sometime if she likes you as much as you like her, that will let her know =)
2006-12-06 20:02:47 · answer #4 · answered by Zach S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would share my feelings with her before i kissed her otherwise she may think that this is a momentary thing with you thinking with the wrong head
2006-12-06 20:03:00 · answer #5 · answered by little bit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yer if its possible spend as much of the winter break with her :)
2006-12-06 20:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by Wonx2150 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋