i keep on shouting because of anger with my parents and i hate that much.i cant help myself to control my anger.i really want them to be happy.i love my parents very much
2006-12-06 19:53:53 · 8 answers · asked by lissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well, stop shouting, then they will be happy!
2006-12-06 20:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lissy-listen.
cool down and just divert ur attention when u become angry.
go away from the situation, listen to some soothing music.
don't arravate the situation by getting angry, its in ur own hands,
its very simple but to do it is a bit hard.
just try the above and if u feel comfortable pl ask for some more tips.
gradually it will decrease but not in a day or tow
just try to recollect in the night as to how many such situations were faced during the day and to how many u have reacted.
then u will know ur count down of getting anger has fallen each day,
this u should try because u have the urge to reduce ur anger just because u love ur parents very much, pl do it.
all the best.
2006-12-06 21:57:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True happiness will start in you..in your heart...if you want your family to be happy...and happiness definitely not define because of a big house or luxury and everything...eventhough a family has a small house but can live happily and contented about God's daily bread..that's a true HOME...
SHOUTING WILL NOT ALWAYS HELP...IT WILL REALLY AFFECT THE ENTIRE FAMILY....
2006-12-06 20:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by xrae12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were in ur position, i would at least discuss it first with my parents to identify what's going on. then i'd try to find the solution. but most of all, u need to control ur anger. parents are human beings that are the closest to us. yeah some say they are closer to their friends. it all depends. maybe u dont spend a lot time with ur parents?? in this case, it all depends on u.....
2006-12-06 20:14:59 · answer #4 · answered by Hamdi93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want them to be happy..then make them proud...do things that you know will put a smile on their face....respect them and be a good son...and avoid shouting if you're mad talk to them softly as the saying says "soft answer drives away anger"..just try and you'll see....
2006-12-06 20:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love them but why do u shouting??? and the anger...??
happy is doesnt mean give them some cash & leave them alone...they gettin old, cash is nothing for them.. they cannot hardly walk to buy the cookies or foods... just give them some love.. & say hai to them ..... be with them or vacation wif them when u r free.. thats wat they need.......god bless
2006-12-06 19:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try pharmaceuticals
2006-12-06 19:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray!
2006-12-06 20:03:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋