he is my first love. he said wanna break cos he don't want to hurt me anymore
he said he feel sorry with me:
he never sms/call me, only me who doing this
he really rare go out with me, maybe once in two months even we study together.
when he had problems,he like to keep inside, not letting me know and didn't answer my call/sms(i couldn't find him for week!)
but, all these stuff, i don't care....i love him very much, but my friends advice me to let go...
should i?
2006-12-06 19:53:14 · 6 answers · asked by vandoren 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hunny, you owe it to yourself to end this realtionship. A man that can treat you like that is not worth anymore of your time. You have stood by him until now and he is now suggesting you break up.
If he is a decent bloke this is his way of telling you he knows he has treated you badly but he can't change and doesn't want you to suffer anymore. It may be the hardest thing to do but sometimes when you love someone you have to set them free.
You sound young, i'm sure you will meet a lot more men in your time...men that make you feel good, happy and not put you through so much stress.
2006-12-06 20:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by sunshine_honey69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you are better than he deserves. He is a right git for doing you badly. Tell him that if he can grow up and communicate his hurts then you will give it a go. If not, agree that is it best to break up with him.
I know it hurts for now, but....
If you let him go, then you will be free to see others. Who knows? Maybe your friends have a really nice bloke or real gentleman in mind for you!
Charles "That Cheeky Lad"
P.S. Have your brother go to his house, drag him to be back garden and turn the hose pipe on him!
2006-12-07 04:32:28 · answer #2 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better to have good memories of a first love
2006-12-07 08:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do need to let go. It's going to be hard but it sounds like your friends will be there for you.
2006-12-07 03:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by ehc11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends are right, you should thank them for looking out for you.
i'm guessing you're 14-15 years old? DTMFA.
2006-12-07 03:56:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is avoiding you, you should let it go, because then it is not love.
2006-12-07 04:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by ladysorrow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋