keep in mind that this happen first time in my life. in my 24 birthday
I never belived love exist, now i find my self in it which i can't belive I am trapped with it. I do belive now that the best moments of life are when ur in love.
2006-12-06 19:41:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you guys r great with all the answers posted for me. thanks a world form each one of U.
i just want to add our problem was 1st was family 2nd i was studing at the time, but now her family realy like me and i have a good career too.
those guys said to move on/ i can't i love her to death/
for those guys said fight for her/ please tell me how?
when we were togather she was telling me all the time that i spoiled her too much.
2006-12-07 18:38:48 · update #1
Find someone else- it's easier than you think
or- fight hard for her
2006-12-06 19:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very emotionally bonding and somewhat devistating event that we experience in our lives. Fortunately at the age of 24 losing someone who wasn't your true love will be easier to move on from than someone who has lost thier spouse after 70 years together. I recommend spending time with friends, don't isolate yourself or do things that bring back hard and unbearable memories...Keep moving forward, keep contact with people, get out often and make something else in your life first and foremost. I was supposed to marry someone I was with for two years, he was my true dream but he became an alcoholic and the relationship couldnt continue because he became someone I couldn't love anymore. I was devastated and the only way I could move forward was to make my education my most important aspect in my life. I have all the faith you will pull through this...I know how great it is to be in love, your going to find someone who makes you feel even better. God Bless!
Amelia
2006-12-06 19:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by masquerade805 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I think you should figure out the differences between emotional attachment versus real chemistry. Be honest with yourself and try to figure out which one you're suffering from.
Second, I think you have to figure out if you and her were really compatible. I like to look at categories such as: emotional - personality/humor, physical, spiritual, long term potential.
I always make it a promise to date someone that is compatible with me in all these areas, but that's what dating is for. Finding out if you do have chemistry.
Third, why did you guys separate to begin with?
Got bored with eachother? Timing not right? Were you arguing all the time? Did someone cheat? Maybe there just wasn't any chemistry?
I tend to think if you broke up... there's a reason... and usually it's a good reason.
2006-12-06 19:49:16 · answer #3 · answered by Brian C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting over someone is very very hard. especially if you loved them a lot. give your self time. go and treat your self do some thing you've never done before or just carry on with life cause life does go on. put a brave face on and in time you will feel and seem much more confident. if you were able to love once you'll find it much easy er to love again. don't let this get in the way of your chances to love again. Its a big world out there. go see it.
2006-12-06 19:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Bonnielass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just gonna have to deal with it man. I believe that generally once it's over ... it's over. The problems that caused the break-up to begin with are going to be problems even after your back together. Learn to deal man. Turn to something else. Find a hobby. I know it's hard but that's life sometimes.
2006-12-06 19:46:18 · answer #5 · answered by J-Dub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand its a difficult situation to cope with. Try to be involved with some other activities which you are interested in like career, or sports and try to be with your other close pals. Try to think why you both got separated before you jump headlong into another relationship.
2006-12-06 19:54:15 · answer #6 · answered by shankd67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Patience...this is what you can do.
Live on your life and try to keep the love you have for her well hidden inside of you.Someone else will come your way and you will soon forget about her and give everything to your new love!
Good luck!
2006-12-06 19:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by Soulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think she may worth it, fight for her...
if you're not sure or the fighting didn't get you where you wanted, give it some time... either u'll get over it or she'll come back.
replacing her with s/o else would be a huge mistake since you're not over her yet you're gonna f* things up with the new girl,2!
2006-12-06 20:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by sweetdreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a bar, get wasted, and go home with some dish rag. When you wake up you will be happy you got sex and will forget all about this woman.
2006-12-06 19:44:05 · answer #9 · answered by strmch8sr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time heals all wounds. plus you just want her so bad cause you cant have her. we all want what we cant have. you will get over her. go find some other chick to squeeze the life out of.
2006-12-06 19:53:07 · answer #10 · answered by fuck 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋