met a girl recently and this relationship began as a secret admirer type thing- i sent her a poem i wrote for her, after reading her work on my space. we then met in person and exchanged poetry. she said she was falling for me through my writing but when she is around me, she has to hold back bc she is just starting a relationship with someone else. is it possible for her to be falling for me based on writing?
2006-12-06 18:51:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She love syour writing not you romeo.
2006-12-06 18:54:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People need to invest time and efforts to fall for someone. Falling for someone via writing is not impossible but a little trying. My guess is she's looking for her Mr. Right and at this point in time she isn't sure if she's met him. Give her some personal space. Don't push. If the relationship developes further over time, then there isn't anything for you to worry about.
2006-12-07 02:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. The best kind of love is when you fall in love with someone's very soul. In your writing you display your soul.
A warning though - the worst kind of heartbreak is that from someone whose sould you have fallen in love with. Be kind. Be sure of how YOU feel. This is the making of that kind of love that reaches past what everyone labels :love. It's the kind of love eternity is made of. I hope you feel the same for her. She may be with someone else, but if you want her, you keep writing... physical love has got NOTHING on the kind of love where the word LOVE simply is not enough.
2006-12-07 02:55:04 · answer #3 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but you could play that to your advantage. Use your written words to befriend her and with a little time & patience, it may just pay off in your favor. She just hasn't taken the time to see the man beyond the words.
2006-12-07 02:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by heathboy27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she could be in awe but not falling for you just by reading your writing
2006-12-07 02:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by wilkinson_1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry to say but that may be the case, but it is hard to say only cuse you 2 r only just starting, once you and her hang out a little more and you see how she is and she sees how you are, then the ture colors will come out and they my be the color you want or not.
2006-12-07 02:55:40 · answer #6 · answered by Alex B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its possible, but its not REAL. people are not necessarily themselves when they express themselves through writing - it could be that you are more open, or more romantic, or more funny etc etc in your writing than in real life so its not a REAL relationship - you cant KNOW someone until you KNOW them from spending REAL time with them.
2006-12-07 02:55:10 · answer #7 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe yes maybe no, although it could just be an infatuation, id say keep in contact, and see where things go
2006-12-07 02:55:01 · answer #8 · answered by longstroqz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋