i really loved this girl and i really thought she loved me back because she told me that she thought i was so amazing and that she was going to save herself for me...but now she told me that she had sex with someone and didnt even really seem to care about hurting me so bad.....im jus still in shock, and i dont know what to do. i was always such a good guy to her and i cant believe she would give herself away jus like that =(...i would jus like to hear some advice to help me move on.
2006-12-06 18:50:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even though I can and many others can say to get over it, it is going to be hard. You are going to hurt for a while, but I GUARANTEE you will get over it and move on. You'll look back at this and be shocked that you thought it was the end of the world. Trust me, move on when you're ready and you will be fine.
P.S. she's a hoe
2006-12-06 18:55:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry. A broken heart has to be one of the most painful experiences to go through. I know, I have had a broken heart for as long as four or five years. The best thing you can do to move on is to keep busy. I know it's not easy, but keeping real busy really does help. Help other people so that you can stay focused on them instead of how much you're hurting. I know this isn't any consulation, but be glad you didn't get more involved with this person and then find out she wouldn't be true. Look for someone that is different from the one that broke your heart, maybe someone that you never really noticed before. You'd be amazed at how many females that surround you that may not be real strikingly beautiful or eye catching, who can turn out to be the most wonderful, fun, caring, person you could ever know. Try not to think about why she would do such a thing, she has a different belief system than you, or she could have really low self-esteem, which is pretty likely. A person who does respect themselves isn't going to give themselves away that easily. Find someone who deserves you. Nurture your broken heart for awhile but not too long because it can get you into a deep depression. Remember, don't try to guess what she was thinking, just know that she wasn't really the one for you.
2006-12-06 18:59:50 · answer #2 · answered by Kyra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, you are not the first broken heart and it hurts indeed.although this sounds like your first broken heart you can learn from this experience so it will not keep on happening. Even though you claim to really love this girl i am not sure she felt the same way , even if she told you so. Maybe she had sex with another guy intentionally to take the easy way out to tell you without words I am not into this relationship anymore and i want to see other men. she may also be saying I am not the "Nice" girl you thought i was and was embaressed to talk to you and so she slept with another man to say it is over. Your heart will heal in time and you may realize she was not the girl for you afterall and move on .
2006-12-06 19:08:50 · answer #3 · answered by angelcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only ask extra women out till you may settle for being rejected. you want to study that it truly is their loss. do not concentration a lot on one lady and let her to break your coronary heart if she says no. attempt going to a membership or another social even and ask like 10 women for his or her huge form. even if you do not ever call them decrease back, it may actually help you strengthen your self belief and get extra perfect at asking. Repeat this once per week or perhaps with till you get the carry of it.
2016-11-24 20:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to put the past behind u and move on... u dont deserve a girl like dat.. u deserve someone much better and that sumone is out there, sumewhere.. u just gotta wait for her to appear and color ur life~ wish u luck
2006-12-06 21:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by [MiA] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're not going to forgive her for one single mistake you think she did against you? why should she apologize in something she did to herself. honestly, i don't see the connection how much her giving herself away should affect you. you can say, she promised she would save herself for you, but do you really have to bind her to that promise? enough of this, i don't even understand why you think you should whine about it.
2006-12-06 18:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gamer......she was not the one for you. She did not save herself but she saved you from having to be with someone that is disrespectful of you. You WILL find someone awesome!
2006-12-06 18:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to heal a broken heart is to find someone that can mend it.
2006-12-06 18:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her go.
Shes no good for you because she lied.
It is hard to move on.
God have a plan for you in the future.
2006-12-06 18:54:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-01-25 21:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋