first SEX?

Question

i am a boy and i have heard that when a girl goes through sex for the very first time then she bleeds a lot and she feels a terrrible pain. Lots of blood comes out through her vagina due to sheding of internal vaginal walls , Is this true or not

Answer 1

Hath Kangan ko arsi kya? Try it out

Answer 2

You must be a very young boy...lol. So here goes...
Not all women bleed during their first time. Those who are into sports or generally very active lose their hymen (a membrane) due to all that stretching long before their first time. And with those women where it stays intact, they bleed but not a lot like a big flow or something. Yes it is painful. And guys need to be very gentle and not want it to happen in one go. Give the woman all the time she needs and also make sure to hold her a lot, comfort her. It sometimes takes more than one attempt (spaning a couple of more days) for her to accomodate you entirely. Sometimes in just one day/night it happens. Whatever be it, be patient and don't rush things and make it more painful than what it can be.

Answer 3

I agree fully with melancholy_chick_06. It is not on account of 'sheding of internal vagina walls', as you think, but due to the rupture of the hymen which is a membraneous covering. Not all girls bleed profusely. It depends a lot on the girl. But a girl might not bleed at all or experience much pain during her first intercourse if her hymen has ruptured earlier on account of some heavy physical activity e.g. cycling.

Answer 4

Not necessarily. Though bleeding is common and natural during the first time it is not a given.

Terrible pain again is also relative. There are some that naturally feel absolutely nothing besides a little discomfort, there are others that feel intense pain. Difficult to predict these things as they are based on a number of things including size, weight of the person, age of the person, etc.

Answer 5

Rohit Kumar Beta,

Sex is a very dangerous thing. Like a handgun, you need a license to have one. Right? Similarly men are shaped like guns. When you shoot your gun they can bleed REAL BLOOD. Yikes!

So don't go using your gun without a license, and that is called marriage license. Never leave home without it.

It is like the difference between a soldier shooting an enemy during a time of war, and a civilian shooting his neighbor. The result is the same, a man dies, but one is authorized and the other is not. One gets a medal of honor from the Prezident, and the other gets hanging without a Prezidential pardon. Go figure!

Sex is just the beginning of the problems you are going to face if you shoot a girl like that. Then there is pregnancy, labor, delivery, crying, feeding, caring, sharing, bearing, swearing, and alot of pain and suffering for all parties. The family could come after you.

Birth, old age, disease and death...these are the defects of material life that are unavaoidable unless we transcend to the spiritual platform where they are absent.

Better you learn how to love God first (no blood, guts and gore in that at all). Then think if you really want to do all this to a poor innocent girl. You got anything against girls? Why you would want to shoot one? Did she say anything bad to you at school or look at you funny?

Anyway, certainly don't shoot without a license.

Hope this helps!

P.S. These are all analogies. When you are 25 years old you can revisit this question.

Answer 6

No. Not true at all.

It depends on the woman. Some feel a bit of pain, and might actually bleed a bit if their hymen is broken.

Other women do not have a hymen if it has previously been broken through tampon use, or forceful exercise.

The "shedding" of the lining of a woman's uterus does happen-- once a month, during her period. But it has nothing to do with her having sex or not.

Answer 7

It is 100% true, any girl for the first time she goes through sex she shells blood, since it is a foreign body comming into her sensible part, which is penetrating, it is painful, but not very unbearable. Firstly it would be painful , later it would become an enjoying act

Answer 8

Well, The most important of all is the vagina has to be lubricated first to avoid bleeding. You have to do more "foreplay" first before penetration. Like using your finger and feel that it is already really wet. Force Sex is one of the causes of breaking the vaginal walls, making it to bleed and feel a terrible pain because it is still dry. She has to be ready and willing before you get into penetration. Do it gently.

Answer 9

Yes...it's painful and there is bleeding, but it depends on the girl how much...probably enough for her to have to wear a personal pad though. It's not just the first time either. For some girls it hurts the first several times, especially if the scarring hasn't had time to heal in between.

Answer 10

There is a membrane called the hymen, that is at the opening of the vagina. In many girls,this membrane is still intact when they have vaginal intercourse for the first time - you have to break it with your penis. Yes, it does hurt the first time they have sex and yes there is some bleeding.

Answer 11

Lol, it depends on the girl. When a girl loses her virginity, her hymen(small membrane covering opening to the vagina) is torn and it does cause pain and sometimes bleeding. Really, it just depends on the girl as far as how much pain and if she bleeds.