who can help me???

Question

i feel so lonely... i need a freind maybe... but people whom i counting on are busy... and i dont want to disturb them as well... i'm missing having someone special... someone who cares about me... i miss my ex boyfriend so much... but he already have someone new... i dnt know what to do??? can anyone help me???

Answer 1

Hi. I feel for you. I have been having the same feelings lately. My boyfriend who I adore broke up with me two months ago b/c of ...well he never really gave me a straight answer. I just know I love him with all my heart and soul, but I also realize that you can't make a heart love some body. It has taken me a while to come to that conclusion. Now I am left alone again. My best friends are all married some even have kids and here I am... just me and my cat. So, my advice to you is... pick yourself up and become active... join a gym or a club, volunteer. The people who you think are busy probably would listen if you gave them a chance ( i had that same feeling). It's hard i know and it hurts really bad. As far as the X-factor have you told him your feelings? How long has it been?

Answer 2

Occupy your time with something social to do, take up a class or art or something. That will allow you to meet new people, don't be afraid to disturb your old friends, that's what friends are there for other wise they aren't friends. You have to share the good and the bad, the joys and hurts otherwise this world will always seem lonely.Don't worry about a man ether when you feel confident and have things going 4 you they will come just don't be afraid to look ( but don't take just anyone because your lonely).

Answer 3

You need to find a focus in your life. Something you care about that keeps you busy and occupied so your thoughts aren't constantly on your pain. A hobby or some volunteer work or a night class. Meanwhile you might meet new people while doing that. Eventually the pain will fade and you will have made new friends and maybe met a new guy.

Answer 4

You're at the right place - Yahoo! Answers. I feel fullfiled answering questions on this site and even better when my answers are voted as best answers. Its a way of helping those in need globally. Forget about your ex-boyfriend. The more you think of him you'll be hurt more. Go to a mall, have a cuppa and maybe you could meet your Mr. Right. Cheer-up...won't you???

Answer 5

Go out and find friends or even went in to the chat room. I think what you need is friends around you. Build up circles of friend and you know the difference good luck.

Answer 6

if u have just break up it is a passing phase see new options u can do some hobbies, stuff if u have some. go to some new classes to learn new things. if ur girls try out dancing, drawing cooking classes.u need to put ur mind in some work with new friend who can help u to share ur loneliness.

Answer 7

You need to get out there to meet new people. Call your friends out, do some thing recreational. You can find friends from the net, but gonna becareful of perverts..

Answer 8

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Answer 9

Internet dating is the wave of the future. You can find another poor slob like yourself to hang out with online. Dial in.

Answer 10

hi honey.. we both r in the same boat... right now even i'm feeling the same.. missing my ex-bf and feeling alone... u can contact me this is my id : [e-mail]