my fiancee is not talking to me on the phone .......whenever i call he says he is busy playing video games and has been working all day he is really tired and Kowing that i will all back turns off the phone :( whats going on does he want to break it off now.....is he bored of me OR it is normal for guys to not call you for three days and then make plans to hangout :(
2006-12-06 18:16:31 · 16 answers · asked by Michelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off..Was he doing this before he asked you, if so you should of thought about your answer first before saying "yes". If not, When anyone for that matter is playing a video game they tend to push everyone away till they are done. He turns off his phone probably so know one can destroy his concentration. At least you know he is not talking on his phone. And why are you not by him if you are scared that maybe he is doing something he shouldn't. Honesty, if you are not sure about what he is doing ask him... it will be worth it.
2006-12-06 18:25:56 · answer #1 · answered by Joanna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not normal - you have a right to be questioning him. While I generally dont reccomend playing games with your man, I think you should TOTALLY back off for a while...let him do the chasing again (men are so simplistic - they are still in the cave man stage where they enjoy the thrill of the chase :) maybe you are making yourself TOO available - back right off - give him space and dont contact him at all. see how long it takes him to contact you. if he DOESNT contact you after a week or so, well there;s a problem and I'd call it off. but I guarantee he'll miss you (if you give him a CHANCE to miss you!) and he'll come running!!! (and play it cool when he does).
2006-12-06 18:21:42 · answer #2 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's making excuses because if he just came back from work and he's all tired, he shouldn't be busy playing video games, talk to him in person and tell me what happens then.
2006-12-06 18:19:42 · answer #3 · answered by PublicSUD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually it is pretty normal for guys to not to call. it probably has nothing to do with your relationship, he just isnt comfortable on phones. phonecalls with guys have always been short or awkward for me, so unless he acts like that around you in person, i dont think you should worry too much. but i d think you should confiscate his video games ;)
2006-12-06 18:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jade Skye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know what is wrong with him, but you might tell him if this is a taste of what married life is going to be like that its not looking like theres much in it for you and you are having second thoughts. If that doesnt get his attention then I guess he is having second thoughts himself.
2006-12-06 18:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is he wants to out of this relationship. Text him that you're disturbed by his actions and ask if he wants to end the relationship. If yes, move on, keep yourself busy to avoid feeling too hurt. You deserve someone better.
2006-12-06 18:22:58 · answer #6 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a loser....playing video games all the time. Go out with your friends instead an have a good time....you'll be stuck in his fantasy land otherwise.
2006-12-06 18:19:22 · answer #7 · answered by stickan8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he might have cold feet about marraige, as you said fiancee, you shoudl try and find out what exactly is goin on, if this has been goin on for more then a couple days then you should just drop him
2006-12-06 18:33:11 · answer #8 · answered by kydd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fiancee does that?! Girl, pack your bags before it's too late. If he treats you like that now, can you imagine what it would be like to be married to the jerk?
2006-12-06 18:52:00 · answer #9 · answered by adeleb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your worst fears have been realized, he no longer wants you and is interested in another. Sudden behavior changes are large waving red flags.
2006-12-06 18:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋