2006-12-06 18:06:42 · 22 answers · asked by annette1042003@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, some men argue for thrill. agrguing is healthy, if u agreed on everything, wouldnt that be boring?
2006-12-06 18:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by metalstefl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The problem is that the more people argue, the less attracted they are to each other. However, arguing itself is the evidence that a person does not want to give up things quickly, and will fight to defend them. So, it's a trade off. Me and my gf argue too damn much. And as much as I hate it, it goes on and on, and I've been thinking for a long time how much longer will it take us to stop arguing and just be happy as we are. 2.5 years and counting - and it just doesn't stop. I also know another couple that was fighting for a year non-stop. Now, after they've been together for about 6 years, they're engaged and as far as I know, don't have that many arguments. My parents argue quite a bit, and they've been married for 25 years. My brother is dating a girl, with whom they argue more than they have peace - and they've been together for over 2 years.
So, to answer your question - arguing is not a sing of breaking up, it's a sign of misunderstanding. Looking for clues to understand perception of another person is one of ways to escape arguing.
2006-12-07 02:16:13 · answer #2 · answered by Negotiator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If it is you and your partner then this is my advice:My bf and I have been together for 2 years and a few months and we still argue. Every person has their own mind and everyone is unique. You will obviously fight because the way you think is not the way he/she thinks and vice versa. Look at it from this point of view: You are both different and you think differently and when you argue, you are actually just getting to know each others dislikes and values,etc. Arguing is healthy in a relationship.
2006-12-07 02:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jade22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be a any one or variety of reasons.... A life change....Stress involved. Someone using. Lack of interest for one reason or another. Whatever the issue, it needs to be resolved. And if it is a sign of breakin up, it's not the end of the world....But rather a new beginning!
2006-12-07 02:12:03 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only definite sign of a break-up is not arguing, cause this saws that you have no communication with your partner! Arguing means caring or boredom! So in the second case try something to liven up your affair!
2006-12-07 02:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Roubini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really, only if you let it be. My husband and I argue all the time and him and I aren't going anywhere. A lot of healthy relationships are build on arguments and it makes making up all the better. As long as you all don't say hurtful things to each other or bring up each others past in you all's face and no one holds a grudge, then I would say you don't have anything to worry about as long as it doesn't come to violence or being unfaithful.
2006-12-07 02:18:35 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what you are arguing about. I am a girl and personally I like it when me and my boyfriend fight about small things I find it amusing. It could just be that you are getting closer and noticing a lot of little things you didn't before. But if you fights are drawn out and about larger topics i think you need to sit down and talk with him about them because it could lead to a break up and an unfriendly one at that.
2006-12-07 02:12:00 · answer #7 · answered by kimmy125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a sign of selfishness! I have to be right and you have to be wrong!
The argument is only a elephant in a china shop, stepping on china/feelings just to prove I'm right!
After all the stepping on and breaking/ hurt feelings, what has been gained? That I am right about some issue that does not save live, ot home?
How do you say,"I care/love", after stepping on the feelings, just to be right?
Pretty immature, selfish, mean and thoughtless, if you ask the world!
2006-12-07 03:00:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing is part and partial of relationship. sometime by arguing it help to build and secure the relationship for the better. Ever relationship, marriage, family or friend sometimes we argue. Good luck
2006-12-07 02:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt have to be a sign of a break up, just need to calm down, and figure it out, before there is a arguement that does get started.
2006-12-07 02:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arguing a lot is a sign of humanity.
2006-12-07 02:08:24 · answer #11 · answered by Axel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋