Aside from the fact that maybe they are jealous of you? I have not done anything to harm this person and I want to stay friends with them, but...
2006-12-06 17:44:58 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
How can you be friends with someone who hates you?
Better question, why would you want to?
You could confront them (non agressively) and ask them what the problem is, but they will probably tell you "Nothing", or tell you something you most likely will not want to hear!
Be civil when you are required to, but do not go out of your way to see or be with them.
End of story!
2006-12-06 17:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by CaM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to stay friends with someone who hates you? If someone hates you and is jealous of you I don't think they are your friend. Do you? I don't think you need to deal with them at all. Move on and get friends who don't hate you but instead embrace the true meaning of friendship and who will be good to you.
2006-12-06 18:28:04 · answer #2 · answered by sydney77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't reciprocate the hate or attacks. Either take the hate good-naturedly or silently. Be nice to the person- smile, use common courtesies like saying "good morning," give sincere compliments, and acknowledge when they have a good or valid point. It can only help, while being nasty back at them can only make things worse.
2006-12-06 18:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask them. If they don't answer or still hate you then don't waste you time trying to be friends with them, if they answer then you know and can put it straight again (if you done something wrong in the first place). Honesty is the best way
2006-12-06 17:55:20 · answer #4 · answered by sand 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear this question alot. But the best way to deal with a person who hates you is to be kind to them. People act in hate in order to upset you and draw you into a confrontation. But when you are kind to them, they are surprised by it and do not know how to respond to it. If you are kind to them everytime they are hateful, then eventually they will give up. Then it will force them to accept other avenues in order to communicate with you, like being kind back to you.
2006-12-06 17:50:30 · answer #5 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste you time. Why would you want to waste your time on someone who hates you? They will realize they have no reason to hate you. If this person is really important to you talk it out with them. Ask them why they are upset at you? This should get you two to speak.
2006-12-06 17:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by uniqaznmeg 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand what you mean.
Just DON'T deal with them. . .Why do you want to stay friends with someone who hates you? They are definetely not a true friend, and the longer you stay with them, the more drama and dumb stuff is going to happen.
You don't have to confront them about it. If they talk to you, reply politely but as if you were strangers.
2006-12-06 18:06:25 · answer #7 · answered by Traveler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile and be a better person. If you haven't done anything you have nothing to worry about.
I also think obi-wan kenobi said it perfectly.
May the force be with you! lol
2006-12-06 18:02:28 · answer #8 · answered by idontknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel sorry for them. Something bad must be happening in their life to make them want to take it out on you. Maybe you should even try to figure out what you can do to help.
2006-12-06 18:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by drshorty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why try to stay friends with someone who hates you.
Not a friend to begin with I guess.
Just go on about life like usual but don't go out of your way to pay 'no' attention to them or pay 'any' attention to them.
2006-12-06 18:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by oodlesoanimals 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋