we have been going out for 1 1/2 months
we are both 15
he is moving to his dads
2006-12-06 16:46:14 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm...the same exact thing happened to me...so i know what you're goin thru....my bf and i just started goin out a lil bit before he moved....he moved april 8. we live in las vegas. and then he moved to live with his dad in new mexico. both of us are 15. we ended up continuing our relationship. (long distance). we are still together and he is supposed to be visiting his mom and me for christmas. :) but it is up to you two with what you guys wanna do. you can either end the relationship. or continue it if you are happy together.if you guys really care for each other, then i would say go for the long distance. but that's just me. a warning tho....long distance relationship is very difficult. trust me on this one. from my experience....the most important thing....CONSTANT COMMUNICATION. you should try to talk to each other at least everyday...even if its just for a lil bit....its better than nothing. you can go a couple of days without talking but dont go a week without. you guys may become frustrated or sumthing. cuz that has happened to me and my bf. my bf prefers to talk to me everyday cuz he dont like not knowing what's goin on with me. but...just depends on your bf. so far...my bf has been gone for 8 months and two days. its been very difficult. but it is all worth it. my bf and i found out that our love for each other has grown and become even stronger. you just have to believe. keep in touch any way you can. thru phone, emails, instant messaging on yahoo, text messages. my bf and i use the phone and text message the most. and we use the others every once in a while. its nice becuz when you guys are really missing each other, you can send a sweet lil text message sayin i love you or i miss you a lot. just make sure you two are honest with each other, how you feel, your current emotions and everything. but before he leaves you need to spend as much time as you can with him. share the special memories you guys have had, cuddle, talk, play around. it's important becuz you wish you could be doin that stuff after he moves. unfortunately, i didnt get to spend time with my bf before he moved. i was sick the whole time during his last week. so i didnt get to see him at school or spend precious time with him. luckily for me, he stopped by my house before he went to the airport. he got to say goodbye and hug me at least. but i never got to kiss him a last time before he moved. which really sucked. but whatever you choose to do, i hope it works out to where you are happy and everything is alright. best of luck to you and your bf. :)
2006-12-10 07:37:21 · answer #1 · answered by Trinity A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who you adore and who loves you need to have the time for you, and in the journey that they don't, they ought to make time. for sure each and every individual is going to have issues occurring in there own life, and may't spend one hundred% of there time doing what they want, yet a month and a 0.5 isn't adequate. If actual distance is a controversy, then it truly is a special matter, yet i'm assuming that it should be person-friendly sufficient to work out one yet another. Does your boyfriend make excuses for no longer seeing you? Does he have good motives or does he only say "yet yet again"? Me and my boyfriend were at the same time for a 12 months. we stay 26 miles aside yet we are no longer used to each and each and every week with out seeing one yet another, the in common words time we do bypass that lengthy is that if one human beings has to bypass someplace (his grand father's funeral) ect. the different time, we locate time for eachother. I vacation 2 hours and 20 minutes on the bus often times to work out him for an hour, and infrequently's he drives out to the country after paintings, at 10.30 pm only to percentage a mattress with me, then get up interior the morning and rigidity decrease back to paintings. you need to quite attempt chatting with your boyfriend about it. To have a good relationship you quite might want to communicate about your emotions, in detail. And in turn you may want to appreciate theirs. you'll have trust, and be perfect acquaintances, in the different case it really is depressing! i'm no longer going to inform you to stroll away a twin of that because i understand how puzzling which could be. Please search for suggestion from from him and grants the relationship one extra bypass (it truly is a 2 way situation, for sure). in case you both do not attempt your perfect, and also you quite do love one yet another, then it should be one of those waste! good luck! x
2016-11-24 20:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much u can do did he want to go
2006-12-06 17:01:22 · answer #3 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋