I am 13, and I am sure I love this guy. He is smart, nice, hot in my opinion, and so much more. I think he hates me b/c my most trustworthy friend told me he did, and I thought he did before he said that. I've done everything I could think of, and I can't get over him. I've liked him since March of this year. I asked him out like in May, and we were dating for like 3 weeks, but then we (me, my mom, and sis) were gonna move too far away for us to keep going so I broke up w/ him. Guess what? We didn't move, we decided at last minute. Now he seems to hate me, and various peple have verified that. I need help, I have no idea what to do. I can't get over him... Oh yeah, I asked him out again this year and he said no, I was sooo sad, but that was like 2 months ago. I'm considered hot to most guys from what they've told me, I'm smart, and nice, trustworthy, reliable, a shoulder to cry on, I'm there for people... I'm not full of myself though, I'm goin' by friends opinions. WHAT DO I DO???!!!
2006-12-06 16:46:12 · 6 answers · asked by Luvley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe he thought you lied about moving to break up with him. or he could just be hurt because he thinks that you dumped him because you didnt trust him or yourself in a long distance relationship. try asking him why he turned you down.
2006-12-06 16:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize for breaking up with him and tell him you had to move so you had no other option and now that your not moving you want him back. Guys do not like being dumped. You feel like trash and dont like it when the person who threw you away changes their mind and comes to the dump looking for you. Other than that if you cant get him back you need to focus on ignoring him and moving on. As you get older you will realize we have all wanted someone we couldnt have and no matter how bad we want them, even to the point of excruciating pain in your heart, you can not make someone want to be with you. They either do or they dont. Good luck, you sound nice and if it doesnt work out their are lots of other guys or girls out there.
2006-12-06 16:52:17 · answer #2 · answered by mike n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you are obviously too young to date. Just forget about boys for now and later on they will chase after you. Men or boys in your case, like a challenge and the more you ignore the more they will implore. TRUST ME! Just forget about him altogether and a short time he will be begging for you attention. I have never come across a man that I could not have because I wait and let them come to me. I am not very pretty but I have patience and confidence, men are simple creatures and once you know that, you will be able to wrap them around your fingers.
2006-12-06 17:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by bunniesrus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be aware of it right now. But you havea lotta livin' and a lotta lovin' to do before you realize how to live thru a silly infatuation. Please keep in mind that you're 13, not 30! You have your whole life ahead of you! This encounter is NOT the end of the world. But rather the beginning of your full, rich, exciting life!
2006-12-06 16:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if the rumors are true because u cannot go on he said she said.
2006-12-06 16:53:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me move on and let him see wat he is missing out on
2006-12-06 17:05:20 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋