Okay me and my girlfriend are having a bit of trouble, we still love each other and care about each other just as much it just seems like...something isnt there that was there before.
We went through a rough patch of problems but it seemed to work out, and after a couple days we were back to normal, but then that night she said she still felt weird, (about 3 weeks ago) and i told her that we went through a rough patch and it will take awhile to completely feel normal.
It didn't really feel all the same after that, it seems like i dont miss her as much when we're away but she is still the only thing i think about, its odd.
I have some things i want to say to her about us but everytime i do she gets frusterated and doesn't want to talk about it anymore, I really really do need to say some things but i HATE making her mad at me i hate it...just because i love her so much.
how do i get her to let me talk to her about it?
anything would be nice.
2006-12-06 16:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by ThisSongsForYou 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you should....
Give her some space sometimes.
And Maybe, When you insult people she is close to (even if you hate them) it hurts her feelings and you should stop because you know how much her friends mean to her.
Just maybe?
2006-12-06 19:44:59 · answer #1 · answered by Seduce A Stranger :] 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in a relationship that went through a rough patch, things seemed to get better, but i STILL felt weird. it never really went away until of course we ended the relationship. somtimes, you cant get over the weird feelings from something that happened in the past. trust issues might be involved on her part, or maybe your relationship has really just run it's course and isnt working so well for the two of you anymore. keep working at it if you REALLY THINK that is what you want. if after a while, she still cant seem to get over her weird feelings, take it as a sign that something deeper is causing her to feel this way and that a break might be a good idea. if the two of you cant stand being away from eachother, then maybe you can try again.
try to get her to open up, sometimes girls feel like their boyfriends dont want to hear them talk about their feelings. let her KNOW you want to hear it. and really have a good conversation about it with her. see if this helps. good luck!
2006-12-07 01:18:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the subtle approach. Don't be direct or forward with your questions. For instance if you want to get to the bottom of her attitude don't say "Do you have a problem?!" Gently say "Baby what's on your mind?" or "What's wrong?" "Is there anything I could do to help you feel better?" She'll start to forgive you after that even if she doesn't show it. It shows that you care. You can use the subtle approach for any situation really. I like to ask a question that gives me an answer to a completely different question that would have been too forward or pissed her off.
2006-12-07 00:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you write it down and give it to her and that way she can read how you feel at a time that she feel comfortable and then she can come to you when she is ready and talk about it. give her some space and sometime to clear her mind. good luck
2006-12-07 00:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try writing a note for her to find. you dont have to go into a lot of detail but just get her attention.
2006-12-07 00:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say what you need to say. everyone gets mad at their partner sometimes...its normal. she can't stay mad forever.
2006-12-07 00:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by ashley4202006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, when you're in bed just slap her with your diick a couple of times and wipe it all over her face. and teach her whose boss!!! :)
2006-12-07 00:46:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
guess
2006-12-07 00:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋