My brother and his girlfriend live with us and the baby cries all the time of you're sitting down with her and stops when you stnad and walk around.
2006-12-06 16:22:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Soory you can not spoil a baby! They cry because they need to be held , feed, put to sleep etc not to hear themselves
2006-12-06 16:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way: A baby is a small person who is learning VERY fast. How would you feel if you had to lie there with NO way to do anything, no way to move around, couldn't read, couldn't talk to make your wishes known, or ANYTHING else? I think you'd crave stimulation! That's what the baby is trying to tell you 90% of the time. The baby isn't spoiled nearly so much as she is just plain bored. I am NOT saying that this is your responsibility; first and foremost, it is the responsibility of the baby's parents to take care of her. If you want to help, perhaps you can rock her while talking to her (talk about anything - it doesn't matter), or read nursery rhymes to her; even though she doesn't know what the words mean yet, she will quickly pick up on the rhythm of the words. Talking to her is good too; tell her about what you're doing - once again, it doesn't matter whether or not she understand the words. If it's nice weather outside, take her for a walk; lots of babies pick up on the rhythm of music, too. Mostly, she's bored and wants to be doing *something*. If you can help, you are being a very good and kind aunt to your little neice.
2006-12-06 16:34:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you spoil a baby at least up to 10 months old. Sometimes they need you to stand to help them work out an air bubble or even get the bowel movements going. Remember it is hard to be a baby. Babies have all kinds of things happening to them and they have no way to communicate except by crying. Also sometimes babies need to cry. Especially the new ones because they need to exercise their lungs. I know the crying can get annoying sometimes but that is what needs to happen. I have 3 kids and a fourth one on the way and when they cry I just talk back to them. Sometimes that will settle them down, but not always. I say enjoy them while they are young.
2006-12-06 16:30:27 · answer #3 · answered by Adam 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is a baby and babies cry, it doesn't mean it is spoiled perse, although their could be some other physical problem that should be looked into. I am a single Dad and raised my son alone from the age of 18 months old and I do not agree that if you pick a baby up when it is crying that you are spoiling it, babies need lots of loving and physical contact. She may also be trying to communicate in some fashion or another as children like to experiment with their vocal cords.
2006-12-06 17:05:22 · answer #4 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can not spoil a baby. My babies did exactly the same. Iused to think, How do they even know if I am sitting or standing? They are babies!! Bub probably just finds comfort in the movement. It could also be the way that bub is held is different when standing up. Perhaps for christmas you could buy them a baby sling. It would be a thoughtful gift that will allow bub to be carried but keep mum or dad's or your arms free so you can do other things and have baby close.
2006-12-06 16:34:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not know how old the baby is but most babies enjoy motion because they just spent nine-ten months IN motion and are more comfortable for this not to change. Try getting a baby swing to help out, and there is no possible way to spoil a child under the age of two.
2006-12-06 16:32:29 · answer #6 · answered by lisads1973 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i visit wager that your little one is coming up colic and that case they decide for to be held each and all the time. My suggestion after going via this with 2 very colic childrens who did this comparable factor replaced into get a deep pocketed swing. no longer between those that are very open. Then get a swaddler or in case you may swaddle stable your self then try this when which placed them interior the swing and turn it on with some track. that would desire to calm them down or save them asleep. additionally attempt some gripe water or Colic calm. Your little one isn't spoiled, he in basic terms does not experience stable and needs mommy for convenience. remember in basic terms 3 weeks in the past he had each and all the convenience he ought to he ought to ever decide for, now he in an entire new worldwide and is no longer use to it. attempt the swing and then possibly a bouncy seat. The swing consistently worked terrific for my childrens. nicely stable success.
2016-10-14 04:41:38 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very much possible to change aspoilt baby so long first you detect the root cause of such behaviour and deal with it or even seek advise and technical assistant to mature parents, pastor or child experts and you will see the changes but patience is also reqiure in such matters.
2006-12-06 20:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by pretoria_fish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is the baby? When they are really young sometimes when all their needs are taken care of its okay to put a blanket down and let them get tummy time for a little while-supervised of course. Then they won't cry so much.
2006-12-06 16:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Baby, how old. You can not spoil a baby. The motion becomes a habit though a tiring habit for those involved. never had this problem, thankfully
2006-12-06 16:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋