i have known him since i was young i lost my virginity to him 4 years ago and he had 1 child at the time and cheated on the babys mom now he has a second child and is 1 month old. after 2 years of living in a diffrent town i move back & i thought i didnt love him but yet at times i hate seeing him.I have been seeing him for almost 5 months now and last week his babies mommy caught him coming out of my house?i tell him why he is w/her if there is no love & he says his babies r what keep him from leaving here.Eventually he plays it so well to seem like he cares about me he buys me all i want and spends a lot of time with me.i dont understand why he does so much for me and still can go with her and come back to me?what should i do?i am confused i dont know if he really feels something after 4 years of a past thing.Now he acts as he is my boyfriend and we pratically do everything together what should i do?he sti;ll is with that gurl and has babies from here?
2006-12-06 16:02:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are just the other woman. hes happy cause hes getting it from two women. hes being a pig. he doesnt care about either one of you and never will
2006-12-06 16:06:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are making it way too easy for him to see both of you. He is trying to have is cake and eat it. You can't let him do that. You need to completely ignore and get over him until he acts like a man and decides whether he wants to be with his family or not. You should not try to influence him in this, because it is a decision for him to make on his own. If he leaves his family at your urging, he will blame you later if things don't work out with you. Force him to decide by leaving him. Be strong - you really really need to let him go.
Don't forget also - if he is cheating on her, you can count on him cheating on you later.
2006-12-06 16:12:53 · answer #2 · answered by - 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a "player" & he will always have 2+ women he is stringing along. You need to leave him be. He has no respect for you. He will do & say whatever he has to in order to get into your pants. Then, he repeats it all to the other girl. He will be doing this forever. Get some self-esteem.
2006-12-06 16:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. Move on and never look back. By the way, you should be thanking your lucky stars you aren't the "Baby Momma" and that you can just walk away. He obviously doesn't love either one of you.
2006-12-06 16:23:48 · answer #4 · answered by cammi1313 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the other woman and he is only doing you cause he can. If you stopped he would beg for a little while then find someone else if he hasn't already. Sorry, Good Luck....
2006-12-06 16:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE IN THE POSTION OF THE OTHER WOMEN WITH
A MAN THAT DOES NOT CARE FOR YOU OR THE MOTHER
OF HIS CHILDREN. AND AS LONG AS YOU STAY HERE HE
WILL CONTIUE TO PLAY THE GAME HE HAS HIS CAKE AND
PIE. TIME TO LEAVE HIM ALONG HE A LOSER. WITH NO
RESPECT FOR ANY ONE. TRUST ME AS LONG AS YOU
STAY IN THIS SITUATION THE HARDER IT WILL GET TO
GET OUT.
2006-12-06 16:16:00 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too long to read, but you should be in the EXIT position if you aren't already. why bother?
2006-12-06 16:08:24 · answer #7 · answered by keepingitgoing 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋