I meet my bf online and we’ve known each other for 1 yr & 8 months. He called me everyday and sending email twice a week before taking a class in college. He’s working as a Master Sergeant in Air Force, base in Japan. He told me from the very start of our relationship that I have to be patient all the time because of his nature of work. Working in the military is not easy for him and he wants me to understand his situation.
I was started to get worried although he informed me early that he is gonna take a 2 night classes in college, at the same time working 72 hours a week, in charge of an investigation of squadron and he got only sleep for 4 to 5 hours every night. Since I don't get any phone calls and emails from him. I'm worried about him I was the one making my effort to give him a long distance call but still I cannot contact him. I got his cell/home/base # but it keep on ringing so many time. When I call him at home no one's answer because he put on silent mode and don't want
2006-12-06 16:00:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Military
to be disturb from sleep.
2006-12-06 16:46:56 · update #1
well next time you DO actually talk to him, just ask him if he still wants to be with you and to please answer you honestly. I mean it could either mean that yes hes really busy and you got to be understanding because he told you this from the get go, or it means he lost interest or is drifting apart from you and he doesnt tell you because he doesnt want to hurt your feelings. Just tell him that you would appreciate his honesty and lets see what he says.
2006-12-06 16:10:20 · answer #1 · answered by Esme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be patient. If you knew going in that this was his lifestyle you cant really get angry about it. I know your worried but he will call, give him time. He may just be overwhelmed with other things and if you push him you may get a bad reaction because he will be angry with you for adding to his stress. I would back off and if you don't hear anything after week or so maybe try to call someone he may have contact with just to make sure he is OK, and if so he may be trying to tell you something.
2006-12-06 16:09:01 · answer #2 · answered by bunnydlh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's in Japan and you are state side? Time to move on girl, find yourself another man, one that is local and can spend some time, in person, with you. Join a civic or volunteer group, go out for coffee or drinks with people, mingle with life and you will meet someone that you will like.
2006-12-06 16:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by RUDOLPH M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is very busy. Maybe he is too busy for you. You know how guys are about making it seem like it is your idea to break up? Maybe try writing him a Dear John letter and see what he does. That will get you an answer anyway. If he begs you to take him back, then you know he was telling the truth and you can forgive him.
2006-12-06 18:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Eaglesguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start looking 4 another BF.
2006-12-06 16:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Translation: his is prob. seeing another girl. Move on --
2006-12-06 16:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by caciansf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋