Ok, so im a flyer and this other girl kylie is a flyer on my cheerleading team, everybody always says how skinny she is and so light, and i dont get anything like that, like when we got our bloomers i got a childs medium[there to big] and kylie got a child small and she was gone today so there like u should see how small kylies are there like wut a baby would wear, and she took them out and i said to myself thats wut i wear, everybodys like THERE SO SMALL it makes me mad :[ HELP
2006-12-06 15:47:39 · 14 answers · asked by lfizbterblond 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I was a cheerleader in high school, so I understand how you feel. Don't think that you have to be a boney starving mess to be a great chearleader. But be yourself, and be healthy. Kylie sounds like a girl with serious self esteem issues, and you should not want to be like that. Be yourself, FYI, it is much more attractive with a bit of meat on the bones. You should talk to your parents about this, they are the best people that can help you. They will understand more than you realize. They will know whats best to help you with these feelings.
2006-12-06 15:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by MRod 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey! A child's medium? That is small!
I feel so bad that today, us girls feel like we need to be the thinnest twig on the block. Think about it: What is appealing about a girl with NO meat on her bones to a guy? NOTHING! And besides, if a guy likes you enough for the RIGHT reason, it wouldn't matter if you were a child's small or an adult XXL. Look I watched this documentary called "thin" the other day, and it was soo scary. These beautiful, skinny girls transformed into ugly, 86 pound skeletons. They were sick constantly, they had no life or friends, and they were in a treatment facility. I know that's not you now, but does that look like a bright future? Of course not. So please, for your own sake, don't be an anorexic. A 190 pound person looks better than a 86 pound girl in a coffin because she didn't eat.
2006-12-07 00:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by JessicaMLM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not look at what people say. Going anorexic is not a good thing. You could have major health problems with it. So she may be smaller than you but maybe she has health problems and no body knows it. I work with a girl who wears a size 3 and wants to put weight on and she can't do it. She eats a lot and not just health foods. So maybe she does not like being that small. I'm 24 and have to wear jr. clothes because of my height, it sucks because I have to get a 9 in size.
2006-12-07 14:43:42 · answer #3 · answered by amy61283 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the other cheerleaders should do a little weight lifting. ANorexia is not the answer (unless maybe you have a death wish). Or maybe the coach should be getting involved with total training to include weight lifting and nutrition.
A girl who can wear a child small is probably not very healthy, and although she maybe functioning now, if she is not eating properly she may die very young or she may ruin her chances to have children, she maybe 30 with osteoporosis.
Is this what you want?
2006-12-06 23:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by starting over 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well then you are too thin too, did you ever think you may get a bit more attention from guys if you added a bit of weight, I have never heard any guy say he likes skin & bones. It is more like boobs & butt, lol. I am sure you are fine & more importantly...healthy!
2006-12-06 23:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by notAminiVANmama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kylie needs to eat and you need to stop worrying...no one likes a'stick insect' ( and your question is quite confusing!)
2006-12-06 23:56:35 · answer #6 · answered by Cockneyrebel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am Sorry.Please Dont Go anorexic I am 13 and have been anorexic for 2 years i am also on the cheerleading team.Once you start fasting , It becomes an addiction you cant control it.i hate my body . i deal with it by purging and fasting you dont want to become like me . please i mean have fun with your life instead of being in hospitals all th time .. your just young .. you'll grow into your skin.
2006-12-06 23:51:12 · answer #7 · answered by untouchedangel06 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
who cares! there is always going to be someone in the world that is smaller than you. you can't change how big you are or how small they are. i'm sure that there is someone who feels the same about you. get over it.
2006-12-06 23:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont want to be too skinny it doesnt look good when u r that skinny exercise and go on a diet
EAT OR U WILL DIE!!!!
2006-12-07 14:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that is no reason to be aneroxic..apparently you are skinny enough to be a flyer i wouldnt worry about it if i was you
2006-12-06 23:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by kamdens mommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋