I have a question for anyone who is in a serious relationship or has ever been in one..I called my husband last night at work and told him to come home early.. When he walked in the door there were candles lite, a bed made on the living room floor, and I was wearing this black velvety dress w/high heels..(Which was hard cuz Im 7 months pregnant)! Now usually I don't approve of Porn at all but last night I made an exception and put a porno on, I also had a camcorder set up on the dining table ready to record...So Im sitting there kissing him from his lips and on down and when I went farther south, I noticed something was wrong... He wasn't hard!!! I asked him what the matter was and he told me that he felt weird with the porno, the camera, the candles and how I was dressed..I told him that it was okay and to just relax and smoke him a little, and while he was doing that I was TRYING to give him head but he wasnt hard..How would u react?Did I do something wrong?Was I not romantic enough?
2006-12-06 15:27:21 · 12 answers · asked by happy2BAlive!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You didn't nothing wrong. I wish I were so lucky.
2006-12-06 15:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by wildstar_2 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just didn't know what to think cause you usually don't like porn. Try to go slower next time and see if he acts the same...if he does ask him if there is anything he wants to talk about maybe he was just having a bad day or something. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
2006-12-06 23:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by lustfulcalgal 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
idk, maybe it was because you were pregnant, idk how different guys feel about having sex w/ their wives w/ their child inside them, id feel a little weird about doing that
or maybe he isnt into the porno thing and the camera made him self conscious
that or maybe he's got some stress about other things going on or something else is bothering him that doesnt have to do with you, so it might have looked like he just wasnt interested in you when thats not the case at all
i myself probably wouldnt be into the porno and camera and the pregnant thing but thats just me, i have no idea what he's thinking, but it could totally be something else that has nothing to do with you or sex, talk to him about it and ask him
2006-12-06 23:33:17 · answer #3 · answered by 63godtoh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes men can't see their women in that "light" when they are pregnant. Some men place women on a pedestal when they are pregnant and you could have disillusioned him then. You can make up for it. But let me ask your first how was your sex life before that night? Pregnancy for some men are like going into a church (if their religious) and making out. It's just not done. But anyway, make another dinner for him just tone it down. Good Luck
2006-12-06 23:39:12 · answer #4 · answered by dnisey64 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it sounds like something on his part. maybe try it without the porno and lights. just let come home to you in the lingerie and see how that works. Maybe he had a rough day.
2006-12-06 23:30:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband was not very interested in sex while I was pregnant. He kept telling me that he just did not feel right. I know it probably hurt your feeling very much I know it did mine. Why not ask him what kind of fantasy he would be comfortable with and go from there. I hope this helps.
2006-12-06 23:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why, but when i watch porn with my other, i cant get hard, in my past a gf did somthing very simular to me, including picking meup from work, blindfolding me, driving me to her choice of locations, a very large bathtub full of bubbly hot water and rose petals, candles all over....she had me so excited i forgot to "be carefull".... we were lucky though, she did not get pregnant.
2006-12-07 01:14:40 · answer #7 · answered by K E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe he doesn't like things like that. He was probably caught of guard. Scared to perform in front of the camera? Maybe.
2006-12-06 23:31:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me like he should be so happy to have such a great wife. Maybe it was just all too planned for him. I know guys like spontaneousness. I'm not quite sure what to tell you.
2006-12-06 23:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd like all of it except for the porn and the camera....Maybe it's just not his thing....
2006-12-06 23:30:08 · answer #10 · answered by Steven A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow that would make me feel like crap, sorry hun. not sure how to help u ..u did everything right n then some, u sure there wasnt anything he was doin that was wrong?
2006-12-06 23:31:01 · answer #11 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋