I was always really picky about guys so it's no surprise that I waited til this year at age of 20 to have my first boyfriend. I always got hit on my but I always put school and family, & friends first. My was was 25 and we only dated for a month but it felt longer cuz we saw each othre a lot. It never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He ended it after a mon the saying he was 'busy'. But he would still say hi to me on msn even after he ended it. A month ago, I bumped into him at the university that we both attend. He seemed REALLY happy to see me. He yelled out my name came towards me &seemed REALLY happy to see me. he kept asking all these questions, smiling & looking in my eyes. I acted kinda annoyed and couldn't really look at him. After 5 or 10 minutes,he said he had to go, then he said "give me a shoutout and we can do something", & I just looked at him, and he said "yeah we can see a movie together or anything you want", I just said bye & walked away.
2006-12-06 15:22:37 · 3 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He hasn't tried to contact me since that day we saw ecah other.Does this mean that all that happiness and 'lets do something' was fake? I don't wanna seem desperate that's why I won't ask, but how can I get HIM to ask me to 'hang out'???
2006-12-06 15:23:00 · update #1
He's done all he can - you've ignored him so the ball's in your court. Either call him and make him feel you're interested or let him move on.
2006-12-06 15:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why women do this. When you are interested in the guy why do you have to be soo cold (actually I do this to sometimes aswell, man we as a species have got to really shape up).
He probably didn't call beacause he sensed from your lack of expression that you didn't want to talk with him. Poor guy probably might have even wanted to get back together with you but thought you had no interest in him so he left you alone. I think we've all experienced or did this when meeting an old friend who may not have wanted to see us or we didn't want to talk with anymore.
I HAVE A STRAT FOR YOU TO GET HIM BACK. You can email me at thehairygoose@hotmail.com for the strat. Email me in 2 days if you want it.
There are reasons which i won't get into right now about why i didn't post it here for all to see.
2006-12-06 23:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jay R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO GET WITH HIM THEN GIVE HIM THE SHOUT
OUT AND SEE HOW IT GOES FROM THERE. HE MADE THE
MOVE YOUR TIME TO IF YOU WANT TO GET SOMETHING
START.
2006-12-06 23:30:50 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋