Theres a guy I like and he was totally shy for a long time. Finally he got the clue that I liked him. He made more of an effort to talk to me and he finally asked me today if I wanted to "hangout" during winter break. I gave him my phone number and told him to call. My question is, since we are just acquaintences who see eachother all the time at school and make small talk, its not like we really know one another. So when we do go out, do I give him a hug goodnight or will that freak him out? What's the protocol since "hangout" is to get to know one another.
2006-12-06 15:18:35 · 7 answers · asked by Stephanie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hug away
2006-12-06 15:22:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to this depends on how the first "hang out" session goes.
If you find you are totally not interested after this, don't give him any false hope.
If on the other hand you like him after, ask if he wants to do it again, say tomorrow, (or whenever works for both of you).
If the second goes well, give him a pat on the shoulder or two, or squeeze his hand.
If the third goes well then the hug. Keep up the hugs after that, and don't be surprised if you get kissed!
REMEMBER: You can always call it off at any time, either of you.
2006-12-06 23:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there would be a problem with a hug. He seems like he's interested, so I doubt he would mind.
2006-12-06 23:21:11 · answer #3 · answered by candrv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on the date just see how it goes. you should be able to tell if hes into you to and if he is then kiss him or hug him whatever. if you dont think hes into you no hug
2006-12-06 23:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by jenniferyoung1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it, its better for him to definatly get the message that u like him than him getting confused about y u just walked away afters u twos hangout
2006-12-06 23:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Diverse Insanity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you guys are just friends i think a hug would be more than welcomed. especially if he likes you too.
2006-12-06 23:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this means he want to know you better
a hug MIGHT be too strong thou
2006-12-06 23:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by SomeGuy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋