Me and my ex have been 2gether 5yrs we broke up last mouth she comes back two wks later and break up with me again 2wks after that. i meet up with her and she tells me when she came back she loved me and missed me but after returning from a friends(a girl) house she leaves me agian. a week gose by and we see each other and she tell me she doesnt feel the same anymore. The feel came right when she got back from her friends. she tells me we can be friends, but we need 2 be apart. she calls me yesturday and ask for her company while she waits for her train to go to her friends. She called me tonight and ask me what is up and gives me the address to the station the wait with her train is 3 hrs and im tring 2 figure this out. She sounds like she is trying 2 sound happy. She asked me if it is alright i asked if her mom could do it, she said she couldnt do it. and she really appriates me doing this. What is she up2 i am confused i still luv her and i cant keep doing this unless she wants bk
2006-12-06 15:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to lay down the law!!! She needs to know you mean business. Tell her you need to know once and for all if she has any interest in getting back together. If there is any interest, then work on your relationship together and sort through the problems, if there isn't, then end it here. It really sounds to me like she is playing games with you. I don't think she is intentionally trying to hurt you, but sometimes it is just too hard to let go so we try and hold onto the past, even if that isn't what we want in the long run. Be strong!! Say no! Only put an effort forth if she is wanting to work on things!!!
2006-12-06 15:25:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I see that you 2 have been together for along time and its always a hard break up after that amount of time but there is a reason you two are breaking up and if you really loved each other it wouldn't require this much work, let her go, be Sibel with each other but being "good Friends" is almost impossible with x lover maybe try just emailing each other every once in awhile ... if its meant to be you will get back together.
2006-12-06 23:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by angelgodz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me that she is playing you.Every time she needs you she runs back to you or what you think is you guys geting back together but it is clear as night and day you are her man toy but only when she wants to be botherd by you,or better yet when
no one wants to be around her,So try this for the next couple of weeks karma.Treat her just like she treat you.And you can't love someone who is not in love with you,she knows you love her and it's sad but she is useing that and your eating it up with a big spoone.
2006-12-06 23:43:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, this relationship is between you and her. You need to let her, and more importantly her meddling friend, know that! You really don't need her girlfriends dramatic, slanted advice influencing YOUR relationship. If your girl wants to work something out, she needs to be talking to YOU about things. If she can't do that, you need to move on and be looking for someone who can handle a real relationsip.
2006-12-06 23:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by bobthebuilder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games she's got u right where she wants you. If something goes wrong with her other relationships she knows she can run back 2 u. Don't allow her 2 use u like dat.
2006-12-06 23:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Risky_Bizness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you allow someone to do this to you, then you deserve every bit of it. My ex sister in law, done my brother that way, after they were divorced. Like I told him if you let her do it, she will continue to do it, because she has you wrapped around her finger and knows you will take her back. Good Luck and I hope you get alittle smarter. So many women out there!!
Msranda
2006-12-06 23:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by Msranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it doesnt sound like she likes you anymore. she probably only got back with you for two weeks because she was unsure. youve been together 5 years its not easy to just leave someone after knowing them so well so even though she knows she doesnt want to be together its still hard for her to let you go. you have to realize its over and just move on and if its too hard for you to be around her just dont go around her anymore
2006-12-06 23:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by jenniferyoung1987 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should give her some stuff and hang around with her alot and go out this friday and give her any thing she wants and make her feel good and dont ask her dumb (?) and at the next day or when u go to school carry her books and give her a ride and play your song when you guys go out the first time and she will be with you foraver have fun with her.....
2006-12-06 23:21:54 · answer #8 · answered by muammers07 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on with your life man. The woman has issues. RUN away! Unless you cheated on her, in which case she is right to not want you back.
2006-12-06 23:20:11 · answer #9 · answered by matska 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look girls tend to do things like that ALOT and i know it sucks cus they play silly games with your mind.Your going to need to tell her straight out that if she keeps playing mind games with you then your giving her up.dont let her do this to yo.tell her not to call you and stuff until shes ready to make up her mind 100 % about you.that should work ok
2006-12-06 23:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋