ok i'm 12 years old and my boyfriend is 16 but is it normal that i get turned on by his 18 year old cousion and his dad who is 53 i just want to know if there is something wrong with me mentally and phiscley or if girls always get this when they r going through changes.
2006-12-06 15:08:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
and i have had sex with my boyfriend and i like it but my he knows about my problems and he doesn't even care if i have sex with his dad so is there something wrong with me.
2006-12-06 15:15:46 · update #1
don't make fun of my spelling i have dylaxia and the 16 year old which is my boyfriend is in special ed. and his dad is like him to.
2006-12-06 15:19:11 · update #2
oh yes, very normal! i remember having those same temtations when I was your age. the first person i had a true crush on and thought i was head over heels in love with was when i was 12 and he was 16. he was in high school and everyone thought i was insane for dating a boy in high school. and even then i was attracted to men of all ages. it's the hormones, hun! and it only gets better from here on. those feelings will calm down a little. some feelings will go away or calm down and others will only get stronger. you are about to become the woman you will be for the rest of your life! this is such a roller coaster right now. your boyfriend is going through that same ride as you in his own way. it's wonderful that neither of you are alone and are able to tell each other such deep secrets about one another! yousound like the best of friends. so yes, you are normal. all of the girls who were in my little "click" in school went through this also. some more than others. have fun finding out who you are and don't let it bother you too much! I wish i could get an update on how things pan out....
2006-12-06 15:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by jess l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, at the age of 12, you should be thinking about playing and maybe trying new things, true. Fantasizing about boys (and older men who might have the "daddy" factor about them) is normal at your age. Having a boyfriend is a tad unusual, but not totally unheard of at age 12. Having sex at age 12, however, despite how good it might feel, is both dangerous and against the law. If you are going to have a boyfriend, though, stay with the 16 y/o, or find someone closer to your age, if you want. In short--nothing physically wrong, or mentally either, with you. Also, don't worry about the spelling, just work hard on your schooling, and try your best. Dyslexsia or not, that is all anyone can ask of anyone, is to try! Good luck!
2006-12-06 19:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Mudcat007 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I dont think a 12yr old who cant even spell correctly should be thinking about a boyfriend who is 4 years older, not to mention getting turned on by anyone, younger or older.
stay young for as long as possible. You should be out PLAYING with friends and paying attention in school. dont worry about boys or men, just worry about being a CHILD. Thats exactly what you are. That 16 yr old b/f of your should have charges brought up against him for even messing with someone your age.
2006-12-06 15:15:53 · answer #3 · answered by NA 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋
ha......i have a feeeling ur lying.......special ed ya sure....hmm........dyslexia means u mix up letters.....so u sure cant spell........quit with the lying but if u r goin out with a 16 year old wow!! who is attracted to 12 year old girls. Ya itz ok to be attracted to older guys but u can't be dating them!!
2006-12-07 10:20:03 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetie101 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are heading for BIG trouble and in the process you are going to destroy the lives of many people.
2006-12-07 10:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by bonobo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny its easy to get turned on by older men it happens all the time my boyfriend is ten years older then me but i am older then you so its different but dont worry happens all the time just wait before you go and have sex your alittle to young yet for all that
2006-12-06 15:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by <3 mykiddos,mylife <3 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
troll
2006-12-06 15:26:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
your boyfriend is a PAEDOPHILE
2006-12-06 21:29:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋