I don't understand. My first wife was pretty, thin, and had a great body.. Now im divorced and i only get hit on by unattractive women. Was my first wife just a lucky strike that i took for granted. I feel like i cannot be with someone less attractive than her, or i have lost. I think this is because my height, as i get good scores on those pic rating sites like hot or not. The problem is i get very down and often suicidal about it. is this just how it is going to be for me because of my height. I.e... never having a chance with a physically attractive woman?
2006-12-06 14:29:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its all about attitude man. Girls dig positive, confident guys. They will forgive a lot of shortcomings (yes that was intended) if you have the attitude to back it up. You aren't getting "attractive" women because you are in a pessimistic outlook and are feeling suicidal. My suggestion to you is to stop looking for a replacement for your wife, because thats not EVER going to happen. Get happy again, man, then worry about the ladies.
2006-12-06 14:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by kaputt_18 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly you should try talking to a therapist especially if you feel suicidal. Looks are not everything - maybe those women have awesome personalities. I mean your ex wife may have een attractive but there was obviously something that made you and her get divorced. Height doesn't matter - look at Tom Cruise - he is weird, shorter and he gets the attractive girls. Don't worry about your height and focus on the outside I mean you need to be attracted to someone but don't dwell on it.
2006-12-06 14:33:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just letting yourself down too much and you aren't getting out to the right spots. Don't think that all the ladies will just come to you, its a two way street. So try hitting on some pretty ladies and maybe you'll be in luck!
2006-12-06 14:32:50 · answer #3 · answered by allison_janelle 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It totally is NOT about your hieght. Don't you watch movies, women want a charming, funny, friendly and compassionate guy, not some guy who is regretting divorcing his ex because she's hot. That's shallow! It shows in the way you carry yourself probably. Let go of your past and you will feel a weight lifted off of you and it will show.
2006-12-06 14:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Could be you made a mistake with your wife and you know it. Lack of confidence is worse on your attractiveness quotient than lack of height, looks, or money.
2006-12-06 14:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try Yahoo Personals on the web. You can specify appearance, height, and much more!
2006-12-06 14:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if all your looking for is looks than you deserve and "unattractive" woman....
And maybe your first wife was pretty becasue you loved her and now you cant thing of anyone as pretty casue you miss her.
2006-12-06 14:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Jack Daniels 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You think you have it bad now, wait 5 or 10 more years.
2006-12-06 14:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you realy shouldn't date someone because of how they look. check into their personalities to decide on rather your getting a raw deal or not.
2006-12-06 14:32:32 · answer #9 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
can i have a look at the pic of your first wife??
2006-12-06 14:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by KO 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋