Im 42 and my girlfriend is 31. She gets jealous when my daughters, who are 27 and 18 call me up or stop by to visit or go out. She is seperated with two daughters of her own who incidentally, get along with my daughters excellently. I`ve had women do this in the past and I don`t know why?.
2006-12-06 14:22:12 · 6 answers · asked by neanderstrat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, good question. I've experienced this personally. I hated this one girlfriend of my fathers for what seemed like years. She was always around. And in my dad's case, their relationship just took off too quickly. I hadn't adjusted to her so I began to despise her. But don't worry, its just temporary. Your girlfriend will come around. She may feel that your daughters take alot of your time... time that she could be spending with you. New relationships, especially, require plenty of time spent between the two people in the relationship. Having other people around while your trying to get to know each other could be challenging for your gf. A bit of advice: take your girl on a trip... just the two of you, for about a week. Let her know that she is just as important as your daughters... if its that serious. Good luck.
2006-12-06 14:30:15 · answer #1 · answered by Essence 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have had women do this in the past, maybe you are causing issues in your relationships with women. I had an excellent relationship with my ex husbands daughter and even after our divorce, we still are friendly.
My current boy friends daughter is another story. If she was my 25 yr old daughter, I would turn her over my knee and whip her a.ss. She is in all of our business. She listens in on our private phone conversations, She drove my 16 yr old daughter to an airport to pick up a guy she met over the internet and did not mention it to me. She is lazy, self centered and my business is not hers. I am not her mother, I am her dads lover, and that is not her business.
I think you are probably doing something offensive to your girlfriend with your daughter and need to knock it off.
2006-12-06 22:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Thats when you sit down and tell her how it is. Ask her why she feels this way - these are your daughters for cryin out loud! Tell her that if it doesn't stop that you'll have to break it off. This is your daughters. Me, IF my husband didn't like my kids or vise versa (cause all mine are still young) he'd been out the door. No one comes between my kids and me...nothing!
Good luck.
2006-12-06 22:28:54 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a couple of possibilities here,1, she loves you but is insecure in herself,2 she was quite spoilt as a child and hasnt learnt to share,either way,she has to be put in her place, imagine her reaction if the situation was reversed.
2006-12-11 12:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by mightyboosh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They could be jealous b/c your daughters are from another woman...
2006-12-06 22:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs to get over that just bc ur kids are grown they are still urs so she needs to get over it
2006-12-06 22:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by devil_queen_biatch14 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋