I am 25 doing my MS...but I have been single for 25 years. I don't do clubing / bar. I feel Iike I am at the age to look for a potential life partner. But I hae no idea how to choose one. I mean I do have certain preferences but I am totally illiterate on the topic. Am I early for that kind of thing? Please tell me someone the whole abc of starting a good relationship...with someone.
2006-12-06 13:56:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cj p....why are you soooo mean?????
2006-12-06 14:01:36 · update #1
First, you need to go find someone, and this takes a long time. You don't just pick up any girl from the street and go "i'm going to date you now".You have to ease into the relationship and unless you meet a lot of girls and consider which of them you like most and can see a future with, you really can't do much about settling down with someone. You do not know their way of life, and people always say, if you want to know if your marriage will work, date the person for at least five years before even considering marriage. That way, you would know the person in and out. Also, during the five years, when you are ready, you should move in together to see if you guys can adapt to each others' living habits. You're not that young to be thinking about this kind of stuff. I think it's just the right time to start thinking about settling down, or at least looking for that "right girl". Good Luck~!
2006-12-06 14:01:49 · answer #1 · answered by Angel in Practice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still pretty young and do not need to be in a rush. Make sure you have your career started good...but if you must be in a relationship soon, then, GET out and about and meet someone! You can meet someone at the store, laundry mat, church, or on a dating site on the internet. There are lots of ways to meet someone. I have found, in my life, that internet dating works best for me. Internet dating is like window shopping at the mall, ''of sorts''. You can take your time and look at profiles and then make contact through e-mails, phone calls, ect. But I must warn you to be very careful when searching for a mate this way. After many e-mails and/or phone calls, meet the person, at a public place like a restaurant, coffee house, ect. Do not meet at a gas station, though, or some other place like that, as you should meet at a place where lots of people will be around. I wish you happiness in your search and remember in order for a relationship to be lasting there has to be more there than just the physical attraction.
2006-12-06 22:15:27 · answer #2 · answered by Dee A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems like you might be interested in someone slightly older than you are, a real woman who has been there done that kind of woman. She must not want childred, not unless you want kinds than you are looking for someone to controll. But if you do not want kids, than a well establish woman that want to stay at home, work and travele and must be very sexual and laid back is who you should be looking for..If you want kinds than a woman that has done all the things in her life and has money, house and still looks good is who you should be looking for.. Take it from a woman who has looked for a man that did not want kinds and wants lots of sex and likes to have fun and that can go when we need to.. GOOD LUCK, BE HONEST AND TRUE TO WHAT YOU WANT.
2006-12-06 22:07:13 · answer #3 · answered by marion p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well clubbing /bars ism where people pick up girls to get laid usualy nothing serious.if you want something serious you should start hanging out with friends and be more social.develop friendships with some males and see if you wanna date one of them or their friends.to choose one make a list of qualities you admire in a person and do not lower your standards unless it is something physical like "must have long penis" being shallow will only get you--well not very deep!!!!!your not to young you learn from every relationship.good relationships are trust,care,similar interest appreciating small things.always love yourself first. ill give you my email if you want more help
2006-12-06 22:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by 25 i was married with a baby --- getting more education and working --- so its not too early ---- if you have not been meeting ladies then i suggest you start --- as to where maybe try the online chat rooms and dating sites --- or else the old favourites the pub/bar but thats not really a lot of fun and not something i would want to do
2006-12-06 22:00:05 · answer #5 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not .....but you may. The only thing to do is pray, and get yourself out of the way. Understanding and feelings will come when they are needed (this wont be your timetable by any means). Be patient!
2006-12-06 22:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't start drinking! women hate it whn men drink (atleast the decent kind do!). join a club or member service or something. someone is bound to cross ur way. make her laugh, blush, tease her (but dont go too far) finally take her out slowly start dating. thn whn she starts acting shy around u, make a move.
ps. u get to define "move".
2006-12-06 22:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Little*Miss*Perfet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i think you need to do is go somewhere (i dunno, mall, cafe, sorry to say but a bar/club, library, out with friends, go ten pin bowling with freinds) just go out a lot and see if you meet some one who stands out in your mind. dont act desperate, girls dont like that, just out confident, nice and friendly, be interesting, get numbers , make a good impression then choose a girl that you like and ask her out and date her. see what happens. just get out there more. and the right girl will find you. dont worry , it will happen for you. just have faith and dont be desperate.
2006-12-06 22:12:10 · answer #8 · answered by lily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just choose the one your heart is longing for,someone that could make your day complete,,,someone whose not only pretty outside but inside.......
2006-12-06 21:58:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHA hey everyone lets all point and laugh at this loser!!!
2006-12-06 21:58:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋