My gp and I are really close - we constantly flirt and he is really attractive. Would you ever date your doctor - should I tell him that I have feelings for him even though he may just like the attention he gets by flirting and not want more?
2006-12-06 13:55:39 · 21 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is 7 years older than me and we constantly flirt and drop sexual innuendos all the time!
2006-12-06 14:02:18 · update #1
His staff constantly thinks we are together as they told me is has never been like this with any other patient, just me.
2006-12-06 14:07:05 · update #2
If you want to date your DR you should get a different DR first. He could lose his license for conflict of interest and ethics violations if he dated you while you were his patient. Ask him if he is interested in going out for lunch sometime without any medical talk. See if he is receptive, or if he's just got a really good "bedside manner". Tell him if there's a conflict of interest you can change DR's.
2006-12-06 14:02:10 · answer #1 · answered by musemessmer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Physicians are human too. Of course it is ok to have a relationship with your Dr. Start asking questions about his family. Then if you find he's not married, you could pass a few hints as to how you feel. If he's truly interested he'll pick up on it and take it from there. Good luck.
2006-12-06 14:02:47 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move. I hope he does not do the OB-GYN thing though . . . . . . LOL!!
I saw that he is a GP but sometimes even the GP's do paps! LOL
ps. does he flirt with all of his female patients??? you need to find out!! He might just be just that . . . . . A FLIRT!!!
2006-12-06 14:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by geminisista 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are merely recognizing what most people call...a bedside manor. But don't feel badly, many women acquire an attraction for the doctor.... but just on the outside chance he is interested.... continue to remain flirtatious... and see what he says or does.
Is he single? If you don't know, you better find out...
2006-12-06 13:58:57 · answer #4 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your around the same age as your doctor, i guess it is OKay. You might not want to tell him that u like him unless you are sure that he likes you because you might be getting mixed signs. If he is a lot older than you, it is probably not ok. Hope i helped.
2006-12-06 13:58:56 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's married, then no way. If he's single, I think you should invite him to something, as a friend: live music venue, ball game, movie he may have talked about; something that HE wants to do. Make it seem like his idea, you'll get a lot farther that way, provided he's open to dating patients.
2006-12-06 14:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by volkgal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, don't make the mistake I always do and let that slip away!
Also remember he's the doctor, he's get his job at stake and is probably not going to make a move unless you do. Doctors get sued if they breath on you wrong.
2006-12-06 14:05:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you think? of course it is not okay. because it will jeperdise is job and he will be unable to be a doctor if he has a relationship with you. unless you go to another doctor then you can have a relationship with the doctor.
2006-12-06 13:59:38 · answer #8 · answered by DarkAngel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any decent doctor would not ever date a patient: it's unethical. HOWEVER, you could switch doctors and then tell him how you feel! LOL
2006-12-06 13:59:19 · answer #9 · answered by syntagma 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he is a real pro he will not want anything further than just flirting wit u n same he knows it makes u feel good or happy abt it . if he goes further than tis he not only very unpro bit also taking advantage of his patients . so hv tis feel good thing n go n hv anything beyond wat u hv in mind wit some 1 else .
2006-12-06 14:04:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋