i can talk, joke, and flirt with women, but when it comes to taking the next step i choke. im 16 almost 17 and have made out with a girl and thats it. i guess im kind of a prude, but i have no idea why. i love women and but i am like afraid, it sucks so badly cause i really want a g/f but this stands it my way. i feel so stupid, i just could never get over this hill and now im just a loser. and im an alright looking kid and girls have been madly in love with me but i wont act on it cause i wont take the chance of slipping up. it reaally sucks. so how do i really break the ice, i NEED to get out of my shell. and i need serious answers. so plz help in any way possible.
2006-12-06 13:55:09 · 3 answers · asked by Jake W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm.... u need to talk to her and see how she feels, if they feel the same way then take it slow step by step, and ask her if she wants to do something even if it is embarrasing, believe me it will pay off in the end!
2006-12-06 14:03:20 · answer #1 · answered by da man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Heather. I am no longer definite tips on how to endorse you. Your hindrance is despair and also you think that prayer isn't operating? I'm really unique it would possibly not as there are not any gods. However, I am no longer definite if you're attaining this end by way of imperative considering or without problems due to the fact that you think so low and pissed off that you're rejecting a god you continue to particularly think in due to the fact that he isn't serving to you? If the latter is the case, I can handiest say that atheism isn't the answer for your disorders. Your hindrance is situational or chemical if you're depressed and you're going to must clear up those disorders first earlier than particularly figuring out in which you stand at the hindrance of gods. Becoming an atheist or striking extra attempt into your religion won't clear up the hindrance or your emotions due to the fact that it does no longer look that your religion or loss of religion is the hindrance. Sit down and write our your disorders or your emotions and feel of realistic approaches to clear up them. Just having a plan will support if you're going by way of a rough time. If you're no longer and your despair is chemical you then must see a medical professional. Then whilst you think more potent you'll be able to supply a few critical inspiration to the life of God. :)
2016-09-03 11:11:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep rollin with your instincts! your big head knows better than the little
2006-12-06 14:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by highrider 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋