she has a boyfriend. i am so crazy about her. she has flirted with me, touching my leg and written me poetry about how we cannot live in the inhibited form of her desire. she cannot leave her bf though bc she persued him for nearly a year before they began dating a week before we met. she has said she was falling for me but had to talk herself out of it and shut her emotions off but i can still tell she likes me by the way and she looks at me and her saying stuff like "friends or whatever we will be." i don't know how to act around her. this entire situition is making me emotional, mostly bc i know we are falling for each other and can't be together right now. please give me some words to help me through this. how should i treat her?
2006-12-06 13:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't trust her. If she was sincere, she'd leave her bf....she's not being fair to him or to you. You'd be a fool to continue in this path because she's just toying with you.
2006-12-06 13:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by mstrywmn 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When she said she can't leave her bf that should tell you what you should do. Sorry but if you keep hanging around her I'm afraid you might end up with a broken heart. It would be easier on you to leave now then to wait until a few months down the road. good luck in whatever decision you make. ;o)
2006-12-06 22:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I would avoid her until she is single. Do you really want to be the "other guy". How would you feel if you were her bf and she was falling for someone else. She may be a match made in heaven but she is still cheating by writing you poetry etc. I would stay away from her until she leaves the other guy. If she is really fallng for you as she says she would leave the bf without any excuses. She could be someone who isn't satisfied with one guy's attention and needs more - stay away !!!!
2006-12-06 21:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to end up with hurt feelings, it's best to move onto to someone who's available, because her current boyfriend will be hurt.
But if you really do love her as you say, and theres no way to go around it;
Wait.
Wait for her to end it with her boyfriend on her own time, if she really likes you that much, she will.
Don't force things, because it won't work, and don't leave her hints to leave him.
It has to happen on her own time, she's caught in the middle of it all and has to make a choice, either way, someone will get hurt, just realize that.
2006-12-06 21:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by Krissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is into to you then she needs to decide whether she wants to be with you or him and not lead you on and give you mixed signals. Its a good thing your not married because this stuff gets harder when this happens. Good luck if it doesnt work out you will find someone else.
2006-12-06 21:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat her pleasantly, and tell her when she comes to her senses,[she doesn't have to stay with her BF], she knows where she can find you. The ball is in her court, she has to make a choice
2006-12-06 22:00:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kimberly H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her, that man will cause her nothing but pain in the end, he doesn't love you, and I do, and I will wait for you,,, you can trust me,, I won't let you down,,,,,,you love me and you know it in your heart. what we have is something that you should never take for granted, real love only comes around once in a lifetime...I LOVE YOU,,,,,,,you are the most beautiful women in the whole world to me, and I can't imagine my life without you...
2006-12-06 22:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its on a bad start already. think twice. but love is a risk! even if she was single there is still a risk she might break ur heart. But it is all worth it because love is a wonderful feeling! wish u the best!
2006-12-06 21:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Prncss 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she's stringing you along. if she wanted to be with you she would break up with her bf. i had a bf when I met my husband. i broke up with him and now i am married and happy. if she doesn't leave the guy she is with, then she doesn't want to be with you as bad as she says. sorry to be the one to tell you this.
2006-12-06 21:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by Jayn 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't give up man, she's totally yours, but you gotta do it right. Show her your insistence and that you're not giving her up that fast. Good luck.
2006-12-06 22:00:12 · answer #10 · answered by Deebs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋