These year I've met a man here at the website.We got communicate each other through computer until now.He told me what his feeling that he felt for me.Until I've found myself also that I've got fallen in love with him....And until now I am still his gf and he is my bf.But thiers a few Q's that until i kept looking for an answers coz its kept me bothering when Im at home alone and when getting to slept.Since I've found him I didnt chat anymore with other man only him coz Im true to him..I want to ask that could i trust him even though I didnt see him in real just in cam?Could I believe whatever he say on me?Could Iexpect his promise on me?Is he true to me also?How could I got to know that he is true to me?How could i know if he really love me the way I love him?I hope i could get a good answers that could make me feel better and not got worried.Please answer me the truth....I really hope...
2006-12-06 13:47:26 · 25 answers · asked by lonelywoman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you can --- i know that i am in the same situation and i have stopped even thinking of other ladies even though she is a long way from me --- i trust her and i hope that she trusts that i will not look for anyone else --- whatever she thinks i will not betray her
2006-12-06 13:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop meeting people online and leave your house a little more often. How can you be going out with someone you've never met before. For all you know everything he has ever told you is a lie. There is no reason to assume otherwise, you do not know this person. You may think you know who this person has said they are but that just puts you in an even worse situation. This person is little above a complete stranger to you. It is your choice if you want to meet him or not, but around 80% of people kidnapped by someone they met online are dead within 72 hours. HaVe fUn
2006-12-06 13:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you cannot trust him. He may be a very good, faithful and genuine person, but still you cannot trust him yet.
You only know what he has told you. All of those things could be lies. He could even be married!
If you want this relationship to become a marriage, then you must meet this person face to face before making any decisions. Arrange a meeting in a public place first.
Until you are able to arrange a meeting, be careful. If he starts asking you for money, be very suspicious.
If you live in a desirable country and he would benefit by marrying you (e.g. he will be able to get a passport of your country), then be extremely suspicious.
There are many very successful relationships that start on the net, but they mainly come from proper dating websites.
2006-12-06 13:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It happens people find love this way but be careful because the one on the other end will say anything you want to here to get you interested. There are to many weird people in the world today just be careful and I wouldnt say to mant things like where you live[address] you never know until you have met him in person dont give to much info away and make sure that if you do meet you are in a public place where there are lots of people.
2006-12-06 13:55:17 · answer #4 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safety first. Don't worry but please realise that this guy could be a total pervert. You hear it on the new, in newspapers and through people but you never think it could happen to you. Believe me it can! On the other hand this guy could be generally nice but I would definitely suss him out before meeting or giving out your address or phone number or anything serious like that. Don't get your hopes up because he could be a phony or a pedo. There is plenty more fish in the sea so keep your options open. Hope I helped a little.
2006-12-06 13:55:22 · answer #5 · answered by clare-louise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it since I know you really seem attached to him, but these online romances hardly ever work and someone usually ends up getting hurt in the end [in some cases, the "hurt" is physical].
I would recommend that you keep it as just "net friends" and not get too emotionally involved. I know of others who were hurt physically. I was only hurt emotionally.
I'm not saying all men are bad, but you never know for sure who might be on the net.
ESPECIALLY IF YOU ARE YOUNG, DEFINITELY DO NOT GET INVOLVED WITH ANYONE ONLINE IN ANY CASE.
Stay safe.
2006-12-06 14:07:44 · answer #6 · answered by J T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend meet three ladies on line and talk to each of them as if they were the only one he wanted. People lie! I have a sister who meet a man on line, he a nice guy. There is no right or wrong about meeting people on line. A long distance relationship with someone who you can not be with is hard because you don't know what they are up to when you are not around. If you are planning to go and see him don't. If you go to see him It my cost you $$$$ or even your life. You be better off meeting someone who lives near you and you can meet on your own turf, be safe in your thinking.
2006-12-06 14:05:55 · answer #7 · answered by larlonewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated online for many many years. I met almost everyone of them. And to tell you the truth about 50% of them where honest about what they told me. About 30% were nice and 90% were after sex. More than half dated other people on the side (however we both were, it was constentual)
I'm not saying you can't find love online, my old roomate met someone years ago, and now they've been married for almost 5 years.
Dating online is neither more dangerous or less dangerous than the real world. The sad truth is, it's hard to find someone you're completely compatable with electronically or in person.
Best of luck to you!
2006-12-06 13:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Melton 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer think of you may have faith him. the whole relationship could be equipped in this lie that he initially instructed you. Plus, he lied approximately being married and attached with you and who's to declare that he does no longer try this to you next? you recognize he's a cheater. don't get sucked into his internet and fall for him, he will harm you in the top. He could be candy and humorous now, yet he did no longer basically cheat on a female chum, he cheated on his spouse. On an internet site. no longer cool no remember how candy and humorous he looks.
2016-10-17 22:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to meet this man in person. It's very important to know him in real life and not just on line.
I think it's very smart of you to be asking yourself these questions and you should do your best to get some answers that you feel comfortable with before things go further.
You may feel you know him and that you are in love but I think you really need to know him face to face before making any more promises.
Good luck to you.
2006-12-06 13:56:16 · answer #10 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋