There is this guy at school that is really perverted and he always whispers to me things.....nasty things.....and he always wants me to hold his thingy, if you know what i mean......well i try to tell him stop but he is stronger than me so i have a hard time.......what should i do or say to him?......why does he do it to me only?...
2006-12-06 13:44:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to a teacher or councillor about it. And if he continues to harass you, carry a can of pepper spray or wear steal toed boots to kick him in the "thingy".
2006-12-06 13:47:07 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay far away from him. If you sit close to him in any classes move your seat to the opposite side of the room.If he persist to harass you,or makes it a point to do or say these things to you warn him ONCE tell him you do not like him he is disgusting and if he doesn't leave you alone you are going to the principle and report him.Don't ever be scared to tell the principle,your parents,or a favorite teacher about this kid.Even in adulthood you will encounter jerks like this so never be scared to protect yourself nobody deserves to be harassed like this by another person and don't let him or anyone else do this to you. It happens all the time so stick up for yourself.I hope everything works out OK.
2006-12-06 22:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by kat daddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
def dont give in to him cuz its all dowhill from there..you dont know whats on his mind next..it could be a prank..whatever it may be youre gonna lose no matter..you need to just tell somebody, this def cant go on in a school..you might think that if you tell the principal or something you'll be known as the "rat" of the school but those things def die out and its better to get a lil humilation than to be scarred for life..a better way would be to tell the higher authority youre closest to, u know like a fav teacher or the security guard you're familiar with to give the punk a scare..but def dont let it get worse..gluck
2006-12-06 21:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by WC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the wonderful world of Sexual Harassment. Now you will know what it is the next time it happens.
If Perv is unwelcome, if you are not flirting or egging Perv on in some way, then off you go to the school office, and tell the Vice Principal or the Principle that you are being sexually harassed. Use that term - sexual harassment - don't be vague or coy. The school officials will take IMMEDIATE action. Trust me.
2006-12-06 21:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell the teachers there. Also your parents whom im sure will get the police involved which is a GOOD thing so will hopefully stop that behaviour maturing into something that is very criminal.
2006-12-06 21:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should let them know that you don't like what they are doing.Let him know that you don't like that kind of stuff and holding his penis is not appealing to you or something of hat nature. Now if you tell him to stop, but he keeps forcing you to do stuff then that is called sexual harassment. You can report that and you can report him for that. He could get in trouble for that. so what ever it takes to get him away from you then you need to do it, but don't put your life in danger. If you need anymore help just click on my avatar and e-mail me.
2006-12-06 21:54:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mese' 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could sense that you're weaker than him, so you would have a hard time phsyically pushing away in why he picks you.
Tell someone, that's sexual harrasing you, and no one deserves that.
If you don't feel comfortable mentioning it to a parent, try a teacher or a councler.
2006-12-06 21:46:16 · answer #7 · answered by Krissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man! all i got to say is that, that is funny. well all i can say is that he really likes you, but has no game. he doesnt know how to talk to girls.all you got to do is threaten him and tell him you will tell the teacher or someone of higher authority and he WILL back off. because getting in trouble for that would be embarassing. what he needs to do get a magazine.... a good one if you know what i mean and that should help him with his excitement.
2006-12-06 21:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by albert m44 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hold it, and twist the u know what out of it...that will teach him a lesson, and girl what kind of school you go to?, and the it is for real girl, what kind of clothes you wear? usually when i used to go to high school the only girls who got those kinds of comments from dumb guys were girls that dress all whore-like, and that there was this rumor about them bein easy...look just be firm and strong, and if not then like i said twist it till he turns blue!!
2006-12-06 21:49:35 · answer #9 · answered by Darksied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree to do it after handling some habanero peppers for three hours. Don't touch your eyes!
2006-12-06 21:46:00 · answer #10 · answered by Singletary 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋